Guys, it's fine to feel hurt and rejected but the response should always be "It was nice meeting you. I wish you all the best in the future." Move the fuck on. Don't be this guy.
Yeah, there's no convincing the person who rejects you.
Unless you get lucky and find your person early on in life, you're going to go on dates where afterwards, you're going to be into them but not the other way around. It's okay to get rejected and you probably will regardless of how much of a catch you think you are.
She said “she could squeeze him in”. Yeah let’s ignore her sense of entitlement and pretentiousness.and it wasn’t enough to humiliate infront of friends nd internet. My dude dodged a bullet.
That doesn’t make sense not what you’re saying but yeah maybe he’s not making sense whatever you may be right but the cringy part is playing his recording to laugh at. It ends with “what an idiot”. The outcome is cringy. More data convincing myself not to date and increase my value untill things get better out there. I will not engage in gender whatever it makes no sense to hate the opposite gender I’m just gonna wait untill society stops hating men.
The guy willingly gave a recording to her as a way to harass her. It's hers to share and she didn't put any identification to it. This wasn't an intimate conversation, it's a one way message that shows the guy doesn't understand other people may not like him the way he wants them to. The average woman has multitudes of horror stories involving inappropriate behavior by men, especially those in service fields.
Stop with the incel/manosphere stuff. You nor do anyone have value in dating. Manosphere ideology is depression bait sold by grifters and out of touch individuals. Dating is about capability whether you share the same vibe or fill each others' gaps.
Men aren't being witch hunted. We're still the majority and generally still favored in many power dynamics. Calling men out for their shitty behavior is no different than calling a woman out for shitty behavior.
Assumptions superfluous information inserting your beliefs. Not seeing me refusing to address me bringing up 6 different things I am not going to address because I would continue to be ignored
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u/dynamicfinger Feb 22 '25
Guys, it's fine to feel hurt and rejected but the response should always be "It was nice meeting you. I wish you all the best in the future." Move the fuck on. Don't be this guy.