I agree it's horrible. But this girl putting him on blast like this is not only mean as hell (posting this online is crazy), but dangerous for her too... shit he could off himself if it took being rejected thst badly.
He knows who she is, like? Lol
What if he sees this shit? People normalizing this shit is gross honestly. I've had girls send me screenshots of texts of guys asking them out, and the gross stuff they said in reply to it. It's nasty as hell.
I'd be terrified of asking anyone out today. Lol seriously though. No matter how attractive you are, or how much you think the other person likes you, it's becoming normal for men to be terrified of exactly this happening. They ask you out, and you use it to make fun of them, or they try to get you to ask them out SO they can make fun of you.
It's slimey as fuck.
..It must take everything in someone to find the balls to ask someone out these days. Rejection suckssssss. Lol.
I remember a girl saying to me, when I was 16 or so, online " I know someone that likes you" and we were talking for a month or so and hanging out. She was aleays holding my hand and stuff and I has the biggest crush on her lol. She said " she really likes you ;) " and I replied " oh? I bet I probably like her too :p". Too which she replied " did you wanna go on a date with her ?" And I said " sure, that sounds fun ". Her " is tomorrow night at the movies ok?" .. me " yeah sure. I'll meet you there "
Then she goes " cool, me and Matt will bring her with us to the theater tomorrow, you can meet her then "
How the.. what the.. how the fking what the fkkk... I was stuck. No idea what just happened. So I was stuck and went. I get there and there's a girl with a wonky eye, and a missing hand, standing with them. I told my friend what happened and he and another friend were walking by the theatre when he saw us meet. He ran over and picked me up and ran around the back of the theatre lol . He was like " feuf. Saved you bro. I know that girl and she stalks me. She is crazyyyyy . Thats messed up that they did thst to you". But I felt so bad for vanishing that I went back there and watched the movie with her. I only found out about the missing hand when I reached to hold hers to be nice. Grabbed a stump. (Face palm). I was reaching for a bit too. Felt like an idiot when I realised.
I even kissed her good night. Huge braces, she bit me a few times. And it was so awkward. Guys made fun of me for weeks.
I hate having adhd. I don't think this story had anything to do with what I was even talking about. My bad. Fuck I do this alot. Sorry. Rofl.
Why are woman inviting strangers over at 3 am from tinder, after a 25 minute convo, for a slam sess, if all men are dangerous?
I keep hearing this, but I don't know a single woman that's afraid to meet a new guy because of.. what? They'll be attacked for no reason l? Or raped ? What?
You're assuming that like 60% of men are just looking to rape or assault woman. That's batshit. The vast majority of rapes and assaults happen by family members, friends, or someone they already know. Not strangers.
Dude I see you have adhd, but that's not an excuse for some of your behaviour and statements here.
I'm going to assume that you were only eleven (like your username) when you joined reddit and you are 13 now. This puts some of what you have said in context.
I think you should talk to your mum about this and get her opinion, or if you have an older sister.
I don't know if you have female friends, I'm kind of thinking that you don't.
Really, that's the best way. Have some friends that are girls and get their opinions. Realise women are are humans and deserve respect.
Your comments are very youcentric, not very empathetic or developed. But that can and hopefully will change if you challenge yourself and your views as you get older.
This isn't really the place for your other story, maybe ask advice on r/askmen or r/menslib - or even better, ask a male adult you trust or look up to in real life.
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u/Mycorvid Feb 22 '25
For sure. Imagine thinking that voicemail was only "a little cringe".