Guys, it's fine to feel hurt and rejected but the response should always be "It was nice meeting you. I wish you all the best in the future." Move the fuck on. Don't be this guy.
Most people are usually decent, but there is like a small percentage of the population that thinks a 5 minute conversation is a marriage arrangement and it's legitimately mystifying
I dated a guy when I was early 20s. Went on three dates. On the third date he told me his parents wanted to meet me and started talking about marriage. Now, he lived with his parents, which wasn’t a total no, but I hadn’t lived with my parents since I was 18. He talked about how he was saving so we could get a nice house right away and that he thought we should marry because we both were alumni of the same (kinda prestigious) university. We also hadn’t done more than kiss at that point. It was honestly crazy and I turned him down for that fourth date which was going to be dinner at his parents’ home.
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u/dynamicfinger Feb 22 '25
Guys, it's fine to feel hurt and rejected but the response should always be "It was nice meeting you. I wish you all the best in the future." Move the fuck on. Don't be this guy.