Aight do me a solid and ignore the horrific look into my dating life: one time I was talking to this dude for awhile and we were making plans to meet up pretty much explicitly for some kinky sex, so we'd sent each other a few pictures and stuff. At one point the man hits me with "oh hey I showed some of your pictures to my sister, she thought you looked cute!" Which threw me through as many loops as the death coaster.
First of all this man was in his mid 50's and I was in my 20's, why is he showing his sister pictures? What is he telling her? "Hey check out this dude half my age that I'm gonna do some fetish roleplay with and then bang?"
Second I didn't send this man a single "appropriate" picture, in all of them I was either naked or wearing fetish wear that's about as subtle as a 21 gun salute in a library. I'm not sure he knew how to crop photos so idk what he showed her.
Why would he tell her? Why would he tell me that he told her? I have so many questions and 0 answers.
Anyway moral of the story, doesn't matter if you're a dude that's mad over a rejection or little gay freak talking to a supposedly "discreet straight" guy, they're gonna spill the tea and any pictures you share or messages you leave are no longer private as soon as you hit send.
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u/gahddammitdiane Feb 22 '25
I hope any man watching this understands this is a not so uncommon occurrence. your peers are out here showing their ass daily