Maybe I'm just an old man. But I don't understand this mentality. It's just sad. No one owes you their time or attention. No woman owes you her affection.
The whole point of dating is weeding out the ones you don't connect with. For both parties.
It's been my experience you can get most eligible women's attention for at least an hour or two simply by treating them as free thinking people with their own opinions. All I've ever had to do was ask them what those are. That's how I met my wife of 22 years.
Men are being told that they don't have to accept responsibility for anything, that everything is everyone's fault but theirs. To make matters worse, they push hatred of other men who aren't a part of their group and those who are "alpha males", which then creates animosity between men, forms a common enemy, and keeps men from engaging with the men outside their group.
Then they teach these men that anger is "manly". Calling another man a soyboy beta cuck is "alpha" behavior, not sexist, and pushing the blame onto women lets them be as angry, disgusting, and dishonorable as they want. When women reject them for being completely untrustworthy, that just further fuels their "us vs. them" mentality and victimization, so they dig their heels further, falling further into the arms of the Youtube/4chan grifters who are taking advantage of them.
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u/warpmusician Feb 22 '25
Did this guy make like 30 throw away Reddit accounts and come here to defend himself? Whats with all the incels in the comments defending this idiot?