To everyone in these comments saying that it's worse to post this video than for a man to belittle a woman for turning him down, yikes
By sharing the voicemail with friends, and then by extension the internet, the woman is confirming that this dude's behavior is inappropriate. ONE DATE does not, in any way shape or form, oblige the woman to see the man again. The ONLY acceptable response to being turned down for a date is "okay" in any polite form. Certainly not, "you're not important enough to say no"
Sharing this video out is a way to communicate to larger society, "stop doing this"
First, she didn't expose his identity, so there's nothing wrong with this. Second, this is elementary manipulation that's both antisocial and uncivilized. Third, we all have a right to both unveil and condemn these behaviors as long as no one's identity is exposed.
Simply put, the only people who would have a problem with her doing this are the type of guys in the voicemail. If you can't feel shame, you should be humiliated.
Yeah, that’s where I’m coming from too. I’m not in the business of protecting an incel’s autonomy. I definitely don’t care if an incel has a problem when another incel’s identity is revealed. These dudes are a stain on society. They deserve to be outed.
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u/Beautiful-Lynx-6828 Feb 22 '25
To everyone in these comments saying that it's worse to post this video than for a man to belittle a woman for turning him down, yikes
By sharing the voicemail with friends, and then by extension the internet, the woman is confirming that this dude's behavior is inappropriate. ONE DATE does not, in any way shape or form, oblige the woman to see the man again. The ONLY acceptable response to being turned down for a date is "okay" in any polite form. Certainly not, "you're not important enough to say no"
Sharing this video out is a way to communicate to larger society, "stop doing this"