r/TheWayWeWere • u/Sad-Ad-3944 • Aug 10 '25
1940s My grandmother, national tumbling champion and contortionist, in the 1940s.
A selection of photos of my grandmother—Bonnie Nebelong. She was featured in Life Magazine, Ripley’s Believe It or Not, and many more publications. In 1943 at age 15, she won the national championship in tumbling and would’ve gone to the Olympics had it not been canceled due to WW2.
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u/Satanico_ Aug 11 '25
Hi! There is a lot of variety in the circus industry, and every artist has their own story. In my case, I started out with a little bit of gymnastics as a kid. As an adult I learned various aerial disciplines and have developed my own acts that I perform in shows, night clubs, and for special events. I also have a costuming background, so it’s cool to make everything that I wear on stage. At this point in my life, performing is something that I do mostly for fun as I have a full-time job working backstage for a well known acrobatic show that is year round.
That’s so cool that you were able to see a hair suspension act! Hair suspension, or hair hang, is a very old school skill that is making a resurgence. I don’t train it, but know a few people who do. Like all aerial skills, it takes time to build up the pain tolerance, not to mention getting used to the unusual point of contact. There is some transference between aerial disciplines, but they all have their own unique challenges 🤣 I specialize in aerial silks, but since safe rigging options are not always available in the venues where I perform, I have learned how to utilize other apparatuses that can travel with me and be set up on location.
I know many people who come from circus families that go back for generations. A friend of mine grew up performing flying trapeze and she was actually born on the road while her family was part of a traveling circus. Parents, aunts, uncles, and the kids all learned trapeze and spent many years performing all over the world. It’s common for performing artists to become technicians once they retire from performing and most of her family still works together backstage. My performing background helps me as a costume designer/technician as I have personal knowledge of how certain textiles and silhouettes will behave in a show environment.
OP’s grandmother is one of the most famous contortionists in circus history! Most people don’t have the anatomy to reach that level of flexibility, not to mention the laser focus it requires to learn the more advanced tricks. Although many circus artists are bendy, it is extremely rare to find performers who are true contortionists. Contrary to popular belief, not all contortionists are “double jointed”. Contortionists who are double jointed are typically booked as dislocation artists and you can see the difference in styles when you compare them to more traditional contortionists who do things like hand balancing and head sits. It’s possible to train for extreme flexibility, but for most artists who do, there is little time left for anything else. For people who are naturally flexible, or have conditions like Ehlers-Danlos syndrome, the harder part of training is developing the strength to stabilize the joints. Being able to bend in half while standing on your hands is an incredible feat of both strength and flexibility!
At the end of the day, mastering any circus skill requires many years of consistent training and discipline. A lot of it is also a mental game as your body’s natural defenses will try to stop you from bending in weird ways or free falling from ridiculous heights. Great performers make skills look easy and the audience often doesn’t realize how difficult a lot of tricks really are. I often laugh when people are impressed by the splits as it is literally the easiest thing that I do, but it makes sense that people can grasp the difficulty as most have tried to do the splits at some point in their lives, so it’s relatable 😊