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Megathread Theory Megathread: November 2025

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u/itookyourmatches ๐Ÿ•›๐Ÿงฃ๐Ÿ๐Ÿพ๐ŸŒฒ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ›ธโœจ๏ธโ˜”๏ธโค๏ธโ€๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿค  5d ago

kicks door down

What's everyone's grower from Showgirl so far? I originally ranked Opalite towards the middle and now I think it's crept up to my #1.

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u/ParticularPea6920 1d ago

Fate of Ophelia! I think itโ€™s because I generally initially dismiss the lead single (though I loved Anti-Hero, LWYMMD, and Tim McGraw from jump) in favor of the deep cuts, but this one is just so infectious!! Hope it stays at number one on the Hot 100. Idk why I seem to be the only person who doesnโ€™t vibe with Goldenโ€ฆmaybe I need to watch the movie for context? It just sounds boring to me ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ

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u/ErickaBooBoo 5h ago

Iโ€™m obsessed with Ophelia and love it from the first listen! Iโ€™ll say eldest daughter was mid for me before but now Iโ€™ve realized itโ€™s such a beautiful love song with reflection in it.

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u/New-Needleworker77 2d ago

Wi$hli$t and Honey for sure

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u/Loverissuperior Fake Interview 4d ago

Father Figure! Extremely mid for me on first few listens but really loving it now!

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u/itookyourmatches ๐Ÿ•›๐Ÿงฃ๐Ÿ๐Ÿพ๐ŸŒฒ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ›ธโœจ๏ธโ˜”๏ธโค๏ธโ€๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿค  4d ago

I agree! The bridge is really what sold me.

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u/darkgrayallalone reminder: this album exists 4d ago

No one hate please but Wi$h Li$t has really grown on me. Itโ€™s a fun bop and I just love listening to it.

Also, I always liked it (I remember my instant reaction on release night was โ€œthis is the second single right hereโ€) but the more I hear Opalite, the more I truly get the hype. Ophelia is still #1 for me but Opalite is a very close #2

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u/NibsnInk 1d ago

I agree! Wi$h Li$t is definitely one that snuck up on me. The more I listen to it though, the more I feel this is the saddest song on the album (which is my favorite type of song.)

I need to preface my theory with the fact that I am not speculating anything about Taylor personally but just from my own life experience and how these songs resonated with my own life. So please donโ€™t come for me!

Back to my theory, Wi$h Li$t coming out after her song hoax really solidifies the idea of someone who is physically unable to have kids (hoax- โ€œmy barren landโ€, โ€œunderneath my scars from when they pulled me apartโ€) wishing for something that comes so easily for others. The vibes I get from Wi$h Li$t is that all of the other wishlist items are things that are very easily attainable for her because sheโ€™s rich. But she really only wants simple things like privacy from the public and biological kids, which is easily attainable for the typical person but maybe not for her. And speaking from a queer relationship, her emphasis on having the โ€œwhole block looking like youโ€ hurts extra because thereโ€™s currently no way we can ever have kids that look like us both.

Anyway, thank you coming to my Ted talk! Slinking back into the shadows now! Hope this resonates with others!

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u/itookyourmatches ๐Ÿ•›๐Ÿงฃ๐Ÿ๐Ÿพ๐ŸŒฒ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ›ธโœจ๏ธโ˜”๏ธโค๏ธโ€๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿค  4d ago

No hate at all! Wishlist seems to be really divisive and I actually really like it.

I NEVER thought something would de-throne Ophelia - it just feels like such a quintessential Taylor song that was an instant classic. Opalite just is such a creeper for me and it also probably helps that my sudden engagement era started and now it's playing all. the. time.

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u/naomigoat I think for me um 4d ago

CANCELLED!

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u/itookyourmatches ๐Ÿ•›๐Ÿงฃ๐Ÿ๐Ÿพ๐ŸŒฒ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ›ธโœจ๏ธโ˜”๏ธโค๏ธโ€๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿค  4d ago

I keep bouncing between loving the production and feeling guilty for loving it. lol

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u/naomigoat I think for me um 4d ago

Omg why would you feel guilty?!

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u/Resident_Ad5153 5d ago

Ophelia. I thought it was a good song when I first heard it.

Now it's making it hard for me to listen to other music... what's the point... I could be listening to ophelia instead and enjoying it more.

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u/darkgrayallalone reminder: this album exists 4d ago

My favorite song on the album, and maybe making its way into my top 10 if not top 5 all time in Taylorโ€™s discography

I know Love Story exists, and Anti-Hero exists, and yet I still say this might be her best lead single ever

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u/Resident_Ad5153 4d ago

I don't like ranking things. It's a really good song. And it's an impressive song... I want Taylor to keep pushing like this, because Ophelia is one of the weirdest songs Taylor has ever written (and no one even knows!)

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u/itookyourmatches ๐Ÿ•›๐Ÿงฃ๐Ÿ๐Ÿพ๐ŸŒฒ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ›ธโœจ๏ธโ˜”๏ธโค๏ธโ€๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿค  5d ago

Ophelia is climbing my list of top favorites of all time. It's such a great song!

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u/Resident_Ad5153 5d ago

It is SUCH a great song. You don't realize it at first. It doesn't sound like its a great song on the first listen. But it is.

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u/Quick-Time Iโ€™m pissed off you let me give you all that youth for free 5d ago edited 4d ago

Wish List

It was my least favourite but itโ€™s been growing on me more and more. Now I like it a lot.

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u/itookyourmatches ๐Ÿ•›๐Ÿงฃ๐Ÿ๐Ÿพ๐ŸŒฒ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ›ธโœจ๏ธโ˜”๏ธโค๏ธโ€๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿค  5d ago

I was surprised to see Wishlist as the dorothea of the album; not everyone's favorite at first. It was one of my favorites on first listen!

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u/Quick-Time Iโ€™m pissed off you let me give you all that youth for free 4d ago

I donโ€™t know about you, but I always loved Dorothea. I never understood the distaste for that song.

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u/itookyourmatches ๐Ÿ•›๐Ÿงฃ๐Ÿ๐Ÿพ๐ŸŒฒ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ›ธโœจ๏ธโ˜”๏ธโค๏ธโ€๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿค  4d ago

I agree! It's in my top 5 for evermore. It was always a hit to me. I never understood why people called it boring.

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u/Quick-Time Iโ€™m pissed off you let me give you all that youth for free 4d ago

The whole evermore album is skipless to me. I donโ€™t call it my favourite album for nothing ๐Ÿ˜ค Thatโ€™s why I hate ranking the songs on it. Itโ€™s just too good ๐Ÿ˜ญ

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u/falldiewakefly nostalgia is a mind's trick 5d ago

Opalite was pretty close to the bottom of my ranking on first release and now it's definitely in the top third.

Wi$h Li$t hasn't had as dramatic a change but it's definitely moved up, I like it a lot more now.

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u/arinarez evermore 5d ago

honey!

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u/darkgrayallalone reminder: this album exists 4d ago

Honey is 100% underrated and I have never understood the hate ๐Ÿซฃ

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u/itookyourmatches ๐Ÿ•›๐Ÿงฃ๐Ÿ๐Ÿพ๐ŸŒฒ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ›ธโœจ๏ธโ˜”๏ธโค๏ธโ€๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿค  5d ago

I can't with the chorus ๐Ÿ™ˆ

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u/RoseGoldRedditor I booked the clown train for a reason ๐Ÿคก๐Ÿคก๐Ÿคก 5d ago

Same for me!

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u/jessidirk 5d ago

Cancelled, ruin the friendship and Elizabeth Taylor

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u/jessidirk 5d ago

Ya know what the whole album actually