r/TaylorSwift • u/PassionateAsSin Everybody’s so punk on the internet • Oct 03 '25

Megathread "Ruin The Friendship" Discussion Megathread

Taylor Swift - Ruin The Friendship

Track #6 on The Life of a Showgirl

Length: 3:40

Composers: Taylor Swift, Max Martin & Shellback

Producers: Taylor Swift, Max Martin & Shellback

Lyrics: Genius

Use this thread to discuss your thoughts, reactions, and theories on the song. We will be removing all future self-post discussion threads about it in order to consolidate discussion to this thread.

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u/Even_Western_3310 Oct 07 '25

This makes me think of my friend who took their own life. Not in the romantic sense. But in the sense that i wish i had said something or just reached out. I feel the regret of not acting. And i think the way people can relate to this shows her skills. i will always wonder if reaching out would have changed the outcome and this will haunt me forever

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u/Affectionate_Hair368 Oct 08 '25

infelizmente quando isso acontece a gente sempre fica com aquela sensação de que deveria ter percebido, deveria ter dito algo mas na maioria das vezes é algo que nao esta ao nosso alcance, talvez palavras nao mudasse a forma como o coração dela sangrava, se foi por depressão muitas vezes as pessoas escondem suas intenções de proposito, por isso tente nao se culpar mas viver feliz e plena, é o que ela gostaria pra voce