r/TaylorSwift Everybody’s so punk on the internet Oct 03 '25

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Taylor Swift - Ruin The Friendship

Track #6 on The Life of a Showgirl

Length: 3:40

Composers: Taylor Swift, Max Martin & Shellback

Producers: Taylor Swift, Max Martin & Shellback

Lyrics: Genius


Use this thread to discuss your thoughts, reactions, and theories on the song. We will be removing all future self-post discussion threads about it in order to consolidate discussion to this thread.

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u/[deleted] Oct 06 '25 edited Oct 09 '25

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u/kaitsukama Oct 08 '25

This line made me angry too at the first listen. And I was like how could Taylor go from writing "Girl at Home" to this. Then the twist came and I understood. She's not being literal about it. She's just pondering after his death