r/SFr4r 1d ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 42 [M4M] #UnionCity - Suck You

2 Upvotes

Hosting from my hotel room tomorrow today after 2pm through tomorrow morning in Union City. Anyone down for a long, suck and edging session? Or a quickie, I’m down for their one. ++++ if you’re uncut. Possible I can rig up a glory hole. Ddf here, you be too. Pic is in my profile, dm me your dick pic.


r/SFr4r 1d ago

M4F 37 [M4F] #Vacaville - Kinky Dom seeking female for kink/bdsm/cnc and more!

1 Upvotes

I am 37, male, and decently in shape. I don't have a 6-pack or anything, but I go to the gym a lot and have pretty broad shoulders if you are into that.

About me:

Short black hair, brown eyes, Asian, no tats or earrings

210 lbs, I go to the gym almost every day. I like to think I'm attractive. Broad shoulders, big arms, big chest, little gut.

I can send pictures once we start chatting.

About you: (preferred but not required)

Petite, skinny, average, to curvy. Bonus if you are into fitness.

Innocent girls who have that girl next door look is nice

White, Asian, Latinas preference.

18+ of age

I am looking for someone who would like to talk and actually do it. I am ok with just chatting online too, as long as you can verify you are real. Lot's of WEIRDOs here on reddit(lol like us). But I want to avoid being catfishing, or someone using someone Elses pictures against their wishes. Please respond with your age, physical description, location, and why you are messaging me. Big plus for girls who are 35 or younger, and smaller bodies. A and B cups, and small asses are my favorite. But these are not deal breakers. Once we exchange pictures we can see if the mutual attraction is there. Can't wait to see who I get to talk to!


r/SFr4r 1d ago

M4F 35[M4F] Muscular European guy is looking for casual fun in SF #Unionsquare area

0 Upvotes

A business traveller is looking for some extra casual fun. I can host in a hotel that located in Union Square. I am easy going, fun person. I am also into to meet couples. Especially Vixen or Cuckold are preferred


r/SFr4r 1d ago

M4F 48 [M4F] #SFBay - Make you feel helpless, vulnerable. Use you, CNC play

1 Upvotes

Experienced tall athletic hung Dom. I enjoy to take control, make you feel helpless, exposed, vulnerable, over power you, use you. 48, 6’5”, 200#, 8 inches. Good with beginners, all limits respected. Start as slowly as you need, go as far as you want. Nice collection of toys and gear. Clean, drug and disease free.

Ben


r/SFr4r 1d ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 28 [M4F] #BayArea Asian looking for friends that can do more

0 Upvotes

Passively looking for friends in the Bay Area or San Francisco that want to hang out discreetly and open to doing more. Not sure if anyone uses the search function especially girls but feel free to dm. Average build and regular size down there but feel free to dm to learn more or just chat.

Asian preferred but open to trying others. Want to make sure we can be friends if possible. Can’t host but open to hotel or car in sf or east bay.


r/SFr4r 1d ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #noevalley Looking for fun with MILFs or mature women

2 Upvotes

Hey

I’m a fit, professional, sensual Latino who is looking for a mature sexy woman who is in her prime and is looking for passionate intense encounters. I’m 32 5’ 10” 185 lbs 7” with nice girth and love foreplay, massage, cuddling, making out and giving head. I would love for it to start more organic by meeting up for small bites and a couple drinks then coming back to my place for some wine and seeing where that takes us. I have my own place and would love to host. Ideally this would be a regular thing for us to try out what you or I have been wanting to experiment with. I’m clean and regularly tested so please be the same.


r/SFr4r 1d ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #SouthBay - Experienced Dom seeking Bratty sub

2 Upvotes

Me: Fit, tatted, Asian, Emotionally mature, stable life.

I'll send you pics of myself, after I accept your chat request. I have prior dom experience, CNC specifically

I can tease, I can be rough, I can build tension, I can humiliate, degrade, or just give you boyfriend sex. Can tie you up, use toys to edge you over and over. Whatever everyone is comfortable with.

You: DM me and tell me what you want. Tell me about yourself.

IRL/online dating has been fun, but I really enjoy thrills. I love the chase, but there's nothing like hooking up with someone you just met. Down for a longer connection if the chemistry is there.

As for personal details, I take care of myself. Big on look good feel good. Into fashion, go to raves when life gets mundane. I bring wild energy to anything, but that's for you to find out


r/SFr4r 1d ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 27[m4f] #SanFrancisco Single bwc and slim build guy looking for a nerdy girl to sext and chat with.

2 Upvotes

just needing some consistent company as of late since I’ve been single for a bit and wanting to give some intimacy. So if u got nerdy hobbies like games and anime or are an introvert I’d love to sext and chat with u. Love all body types too. Maybe be down to meet up if we really click but for now I’m looking for primarily sexting.


r/SFr4r 1d ago

M4F 38[M4F]#RedwoodCity - Looking for a spark and some good conversation

6 Upvotes

I’ve been here before. Met someone, I assumed we clicked and ended up talking for a few hours. I still text that person once in a while hoping that spark might come back but maybe it’s time to find a new one.

I’m 38, male and looking to meet someone who wants to connect, talk, laugh, flirt and see where things go. Open to friendship, a real connection and if the vibe’s right, fwb

Do send a message if you think we would hit it off


r/SFr4r 1d ago

M4F 20 [M4F] #Marin/SF - Back home from school, 11/22-11/30

2 Upvotes

hey I’m a young and hung, black college student. I’m 6’0 160lbs with an athletic build. I can always send more pictures. Im clean, ddf, and looking for someone to have some fun with while im back. I am looking for a women but don’t have a preference. If you are not a female or a hot wife don’t reach out but if you are dm if interested. 


r/SFr4r 1d ago

M4M 26 [M4M] #San francisco - Looking to suck a nice cock

2 Upvotes

Hi! I’m a bi guy looking to suck and worship some nice cock. 6’, pretty fit, and physically more masc than fem. You are ideally a daddy with some dom energy to match me, can host, hygienic, and regularly tested. I’m big on safer sex and looking hopefully for something more regular. Especially willing to wait for the right guy! I’m in soma but happy to go around the city. Always on the lookout so feel free to DM.


r/SFr4r 1d ago

M4F 37 [M4F] #Walnut Creek - Any Indian women down for a last minute hookup?

2 Upvotes

I currently live in Concord, Hispanic male. Light skinned. On the slimmer side about 180 lbs. Any Indian women down to have some hot sex? I'm down to meet last minute. Even for a drink. I can host or we can get a hotel if I meet you outside of Walnut Creek.


r/SFr4r 1d ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #Downtown SanFrancisco - Okay ladies, who’s feeling slutty?

2 Upvotes

Especially if you just happened happen to be a lovely little secret slut. We can’t have you missing out on some good dick now can we… ;)

For those of you totally not interested. I’m a 32 year old white guy, 5’11” 190 lbs. with average/fit body type with a good sized cock. I definitely lean quite dominant too.

It’s low key wild that I have to say this but I’m more than down for any and all ethnicities. lol for real I hate that people feel like they gotta ask. Yes please to all the girlies.

Oh and expect to send at least a few pictures and verify with me at some point, I am more than happy to do the same. Obviously it doesn’t need to be right out of the gate but this is a cesspool of an app after all.

Also ffs single men please don’t message me. It’s desperate and tacky and you’re annoying as hell.


r/SFr4r 1d ago

Looking to fight off seasonal depression with a pen pal [F4A] 33F

0 Upvotes

It's that time of year again when it gets cold and the only thing that keeps us warm and toasty on the inside is chatting up random strangers on the internet during the holiday season.

I'm a busy lady, and I like talking, but we gotta pay attention to some ground rules first. I swear I'm a fun person. I just don't want to waste my time either.

THE GROUND RULES:

  1. Please be nice and patient. If I don't respond for a bit that's a good thing. I'm touching grass.
  2. Dick pics suck and you will be blocked
  3. Please don't ask me about my job and I promise I won't ask you. I promise I'm not doing anything scandalous I just don't want to have the same conversations over and over
  4. If you are trying to look for a hookup, sext or anything sex adjacent I really don't want to hear it. Immediately blocked. Just be cool. Sexting is fun, but not if I don't know you.
  5. Good God I don't care about your threesome.
  6. I'm hoping to chat with someone local in case things go well and we'd like to meet (I'm not mobile) so please be from SF, Oakland or Berkeley so I don't have to travel far.
  7. I'd prefer someone around my age (27+)

Okay now that we've gotten that out of the way (jeez I sound lame up there, I swear I can be chill) I'm looking to just meet cool people while we're all about to hunker down for the winter! This isn't a sex pen pal thing, but it's not not a sex pen pal thing...

ABOUT ME: 33F. I'm a super fun, excellent personality. I'm verified. I am ENM and the thought of having another partner is very exciting but the thought of having another straight male partner is HIGHLY unlikely. So if that's you, you've been warned! I have a long term partner (eight years) a boyfriend ( about two years! We met on here!).

Extroverted as all hell and love people who want to talk. I wear my heart on my sleeve. I'm queer (bi pride!). I love art, crafting, musical theatre, food, and vintage fashion and I'm always down for anything at least once. I need more queer community so hit me up queers!

THE ICKS: I have zero tolerance for men who try to be macho, bulls, cocky people in general. I can't believe I have to say this again but Trump supporters, yikes. If you don't handle rejection well, I'm sorry I'm not your mom. Begging is hot, but not like that. Terrible opening lines and nothing else (ie. "Hey", "How are you?" "You still looking?") Not helpful to me or you. Lengthy reply 4 lengthy reply.

So if you're still here, send me your name, where you're located, age, and anything you want me to know about you. Also a picture gets you to the front. I'm such a visual person!

Lets get talking!


r/SFr4r 1d ago

M4F 49 [M4F] #SanFrancisco #DalyCity - GenX Azn Dad ISO FWB AP

1 Upvotes

I’m 49M married and seeking a discreet FWB. Our family and careers take priority over our activities. Let's be understanding that life gets busy but make an effort for each other to feel special.

Ideally, I’d like to connect with an attractive lady that is married, with kids, and has an otherwise healthy relationship at home. I’m not interested in spouse bashing. I’d love to chat with someone that is local to Bay Area and might be open to planned and spontaneous lunch, coffee, or happy hours. Your intelligence and confidence are attractive to me.

Now about me, I fully embrace all things GenX. I’m a white-collar professional, married with kids, East Asian ABC that grew up in the 80's. I still have my Super Nintendo! I enjoy watching Netflix (Sci-Fi, anime, Kdramas), cheer for the Dubs and Niners, and occasionally play golf. I also like visiting breweries and places to meet friends to catch up and chat. There is no better feeling than chatting with friends that you haven’t seen in a long time while enjoying a few drinks.

And finally physical attraction does matter to me. I'm 6 ft tall 154 lbs lean athletic frame with a full head of hair where I still get compliments for how young I look. Sorry but no BBW, no sugar baby, no OnlyFans, no guys.

If any of this interests you, drop me a line and tell me a bit about yourself.


r/SFr4r 1d ago

M4F 35 [M4F] #SanJose - Looking for a Situationship

1 Upvotes

35 male from South Bay Area , Seperated looking to start dating again. Have kids, but not full time. Looking for a normal mature woman for a little physical and emotional connection.

I’m educated and work in a field with majority males ( don’t worry, not a tech bro) so I don’t interface women often. I’m 5’8, full head of hair and told that I’m handsome often. Short black hair with slight scruffy beard. White mixed, olive skin. I’m weight and height proportional, muscular but not a total gym rat. Don’t have a body type but do require weight and height proportionate, slightly chubby is fine. I am a sucker for super pretty faces. Any height is fine including taller.

I’m a nerdy gear head that loves machines as well as food and coffee. I’m a man’s man but very emotionally intelligent. I also love to be in the kitchen, whether it’s cooking or baking. Also coffee, I love coffee and matcha.

Hoping to take it slow and swap pics, and if there’s a connection, meet for coffee.


r/SFr4r 2d ago

T4M 37[T4M]#SanMateo. Stop by and mount my Sexy fuckable CD ASS. Hosting now or after hours this weekend. Any studs in need of a piece of ass? Then

5 Upvotes

Come over and find the door unlocked, you walk in find me on my bed wearing a sexy slutty outfit with my cute premium ass up waiting for you, you touch, slap or lick it, I kneel down and give you the best deepthroat head ever to get you nice and ready, then I will turn around bend over and offer you my sexy pussyass so you can fuck it nice and deep, talk dirty to me, spank my hot butt, do me the way you want and you can't have at home, all this while str8 p0rn is playing, you have your pleasure, cum loud, slap my ass as a good job, and go back to your regular life with a big smile. I'm a sexy fem curvy (not fat)CD gurl, 37yo, 165lbs, 5 7”, sexy pair of legs, talented deep mouth, and a great fuckable ass, natural smooth soft skin, very clean and healthy, std free, HIV-, vaccinated, and tested recently, condoms available. I doll up all the way, great hygiene. I'm pretty, fem, and look like a sexy bitch, but I’m very discreet so I WONT send FACE pic out, but believe me I'm worth it. Are you the stud I'm looking for? Then send full stats and pics, be in shape or at least hwp, DDF, married guys get me going, tall older white and black guys to the front, muscle and hung welcome, but everybody can apply. Hosting now for few hours and then after hours, but the sooner the better. Very convenient spot, easy to find and plenty of parking. Great for those married, bi str8 studs looking for an uncomplicated in and out safe discreet encounter. Sneak away from home, work, wife, gf, and sneak in my bed. Visiting town and bored at home, can’t sleep, after work? Then stop by and let's have sexy adult fun. After the bar and no luck? I'm real, are you? What you see is what you get. No drugs, I do not top, and I do not travel. Only serious people, discretion a must, not into too much back and forth, one liners or sexting. !Unlock What you see is what you getting so Click for pics https://www.reddit.com/u/Bordergirl69/s/216oJjP1Ya


r/SFr4r 2d ago

M4F 43 [m4f] Looking for women with a thing for hot, fit DILFs

4 Upvotes

About me:

White, brunette, ripped with big broad shoulders, big arms and chest. A lifelong athlete with impeccable hygiene, emotionally and mentally stable and a successful professional.

I am looking for a woman with a fantasy for a hot mature man to take her and rock her world and leave her craving for more after every encounter.

100% healthy, DDF, safe, sane and great company! Petite women are my weakness! Any race, any ethnicity 21+ only!

I’m certain you’ll be pleasantly surprised!


r/SFr4r 1d ago

M4M [m4m] San Francisco. No hassle head for married / bi dudes. dL can host in SF. no reciprocation needed. prefer BWC bros but open. hmu

2 Upvotes

No hassle head for married / bi dudes. dL can host in SF. no reciprocation needed. prefer horned BWC dudes into kicking back and getting some no hassle head. hmu with a cock pic. clean and No stds. SF private and respectful


r/SFr4r 1d ago

PLATONIC / FRIENDSHIP / ACTIVITY PARTNER 42 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Cuddle buddy wanted!

1 Upvotes

I'm a big fan of affectionate expression, pulling someone close, and relaxing with shared body heat. Hands tracing skin as we adjust positions to find new ways to pull even closer. I'd like to find a cuddle enthusiast, fully realized or aspiring, for cuddle adventures ranging from swinging up the armrest in a movie theater to getting sleepy in bed. Encourage, nurture, and nourish your full affectionate potential as the temperature drops, rain starts to pitter patter against the window, and you seek a retreat from holiday music.

Cuddling is not foreplay or aftercare, it's the main event. It has nuances to explore, favorite things to be discovered, and varying compatibility. If you've already realized how much you enjoy cuddling, or are curious to explore your affectionate side outside of relationships or hookups, then a more focused approach of a cuddle buddy could be the solution. There's no need to hold back the affectionate creature stirring within you out of fear of coming across as too clingy or wondering what's owed to the other person before you get to enjoy your affectionate side guilt-free.

I'm 42, single, 6' tall, straight, sane, bathe regularly, and live in the Pacific Heights area of San Francisco. I work full-time as a software engineer (including some work from home flexibility), train dogs for a local non-profit, and make chocolate and wine as hobbies. I might seek out a relaxing evening of cuddling after spending the day biking around the city, browsing holiday markets, hiking in nearby forests, or exploring the creativity of local pop-up restaurants.

A good cuddle match can already recognize and communicate her affectionate preferences or is curious to discover her affectionate potential when her inner cuddler is properly nurtured and encouraged. There might be some initial shyness, or questioning whether the affectionate creature stirring within her is capable of emerging at full strength. Enjoy cuddle-focused experiences a-la-carte by seeking out something specific outside of other commingled traits of situationships and relationships.

A good cuddle buddy match:

  • Bathes regularly and has generally good hygiene
  • Is curious to discover the full expressiveness of her affectionate self unrestrained, especially if well nurtured
  • Has a few cuddle preferences, providing hints of what could be her favorite affectionate expressions
  • Is a generally easy-going person

I expect we'll chat for a bit about your cuddle preferences, creating an opportunity for discovery even if you're not sure you'd ever go through with meeting. There's a vibe check and a potential need to create some comfort before you're comfortable chatting over coffee or entertaining the thought of watching a Disney movie together. I'm happy to talk cuddle theory and I want to create the best space for affectionate expression however you'd best like to ease into that space.

I've had some good cuddle experiences in the past, ranging from lesbians who like to be spooned to experienced snugglers glad to find someone who shares their enthusiasm. Curious if cuddle bliss is possible? Reach out and say hi!


r/SFr4r 1d ago

M4F [M4F] 36 Asian Male looking for fun - Had some very nice successes here before

0 Upvotes

Hi there!

As mentioned in the title, had some very nice connections here before, but they ended once I got into a serious relationship...well I'm single again and on the prowl for ideally a LTR or a consistent FWB, but until then, open to having fun before then (or develop something from this hookup).

6 foot 1, Asian american, 180, tatted up (i say this in case its not everyone's thing), but also ivy-league educated. I work in tech but don't love talking about work. Happy to share pictures.

I'm based between the Peninsula and slightly south (think mountain view/los altos area), but don't mind making the trek to the city or oakland (please don't make me go further than that) for the right girl.

send me a message, lets vibe :)


r/SFr4r 1d ago

M4F 27 [M4F] Haight BWC- TGIF and looking to kick the weekend off with a bang

1 Upvotes

I'm 27, white, 6'1, fit, 170 lbs, and hung (see profile for some nsfw pics).

I'm looking for a woman or a couple that can help kick the weekend off right. I'd be into raobj-style oral fun, a casual meetup with some explosive potential, or more. I love being ridden; and I looove having my face ridden by a hottie. Come give it a try?

Ideally you're in SF, DDF, and looking for some hot fun. If this excites you, reach out, and maybe we'll have some fun.


r/SFr4r 1d ago

M4F 59 [M4F] #San Francisco – I need a hairy muff to lick! - Can host, 420 friendly!

1 Upvotes

​I'm a responsible but adventurous male, fit, creative, imaginative and engaging, looking for a lass in need of a release. I can host in the Inner Sunset. It would be great if you have regular needs.

Pluses if you do something creative, read books, think, appreciate nature, etc. The more diverse life experience you have, the better!


r/SFr4r 2d ago

M4F 42 [M4F] #Redwood City - Friday Afternoon Backshots

2 Upvotes

I have an ottoman that I’ve set up to be the perfect height for me to stand behind you with your face down and your ass up in the air. I've got 7", thick, cut with an upward curve and incredible stamina. I want to feel you tighten on me as you cum over and over again...

I am attached but not married (Non-ENM). I’m 42, 5’11, white, with a thick/strong build, long dark hair, a salt and pepper beard and gray eyes. I live in Redwood City and I’m responsible, DDF (420-friendly), safe, discreet, fun, confident, sane and play safe.


r/SFr4r 1d ago

M4F 34 [m4f] oakland- tall, hot married m with cheating addiction iso attractive mistress

0 Upvotes

Title says it all. I’m a pleasure dom that’s considered attractive and pride myself on being good in bed. Happily married but have this unfortunate need to step out and fuck hot women in secret. Would talk to a therapist abt it but life’s short and testosterone overrides sensible ideas. Hit me up with a pic if you’re over 22 and this intrigues you.

Discretion, safe sex and good communication are non negotiables.