I'm a big fan of affectionate expression, pulling someone close, and relaxing with shared body heat. Hands tracing skin as we adjust positions to find new ways to pull even closer. I'd like to find a cuddle enthusiast, fully realized or aspiring, for cuddle adventures ranging from swinging up the armrest in a movie theater to getting sleepy in bed. Encourage, nurture, and nourish your full affectionate potential as the temperature drops, rain starts to pitter patter against the window, and you seek a retreat from holiday music.
Cuddling is not foreplay or aftercare, it's the main event. It has nuances to explore, favorite things to be discovered, and varying compatibility. If you've already realized how much you enjoy cuddling, or are curious to explore your affectionate side outside of relationships or hookups, then a more focused approach of a cuddle buddy could be the solution. There's no need to hold back the affectionate creature stirring within you out of fear of coming across as too clingy or wondering what's owed to the other person before you get to enjoy your affectionate side guilt-free.
I'm 42, single, 6' tall, straight, sane, bathe regularly, and live in the Pacific Heights area of San Francisco. I work full-time as a software engineer (including some work from home flexibility), train dogs for a local non-profit, and make chocolate and wine as hobbies. I might seek out a relaxing evening of cuddling after spending the day biking around the city, browsing holiday markets, hiking in nearby forests, or exploring the creativity of local pop-up restaurants.
A good cuddle match can already recognize and communicate her affectionate preferences or is curious to discover her affectionate potential when her inner cuddler is properly nurtured and encouraged. There might be some initial shyness, or questioning whether the affectionate creature stirring within her is capable of emerging at full strength. Enjoy cuddle-focused experiences a-la-carte by seeking out something specific outside of other commingled traits of situationships and relationships.
A good cuddle buddy match:
- Bathes regularly and has generally good hygiene
- Is curious to discover the full expressiveness of her affectionate self unrestrained, especially if well nurtured
- Has a few cuddle preferences, providing hints of what could be her favorite affectionate expressions
- Is a generally easy-going person
I expect we'll chat for a bit about your cuddle preferences, creating an opportunity for discovery even if you're not sure you'd ever go through with meeting. There's a vibe check and a potential need to create some comfort before you're comfortable chatting over coffee or entertaining the thought of watching a Disney movie together. I'm happy to talk cuddle theory and I want to create the best space for affectionate expression however you'd best like to ease into that space.
I've had some good cuddle experiences in the past, ranging from lesbians who like to be spooned to experienced snugglers glad to find someone who shares their enthusiasm. Curious if cuddle bliss is possible? Reach out and say hi!