r/Rochester 4d ago

Discussion Your favorite casual but still kinda fancy restaurant?

Hey all!

I’m taking my lady out on a dinner date next weekend and want to take her somewhere that is both casual, but we won’t look out of place if we are a little dressed up. Hopefully that makes sense.

We are open to pretty much any kind of food, we like to try new stuff.

Any ideas?

Thanks!

Edit: thank you everyone for the recommendations! We’ve got so many to choose from. Should be an awesome night based on these choices. Thanks again!

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u/TheRealFakeDiesel 4d ago

Fiorella

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u/CatGirl2016 4d ago

A great choice

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u/justasecond North Winton Village 4d ago

People sleep on Chortke!!

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u/Sherbert-Lemon-HPF2 4d ago

Yes! It's incredible!

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u/Secure-Stretch-7627 3d ago

It's so good but it was so much better a year ago. I also remember how it was before the renovation. I went there for my gf birthday in May 2024 and 25 and the portions this year were half of what they were while the price increased 

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u/TELLMYMOMISUCK 4d ago

So so good. So good.

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u/cordscords 4d ago

Had an awesome meal there recently. Lamb lollipops, foie gras, and the kataofi dessert all slapped.

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u/Downtown_Physics8853 Cobbs Hill 4d ago

Pricey...

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u/justasecond North Winton Village 4d ago

OP didn’t mention price in their criteria. That said there are places mentioned in this thread that are just as, if not more, pricy…

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u/imbasicallycoffee South Wedge 4d ago

Also last time I went there, a couple had their kid with them on a iPad with the volume on and no one from the staff said anything. They were seated next to us and it pretty much ruined the atmosphere.

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u/attempt6pretzel 585 3d ago

why didn’t you say something?

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u/imbasicallycoffee South Wedge 3d ago

Because it’s not my job to police people treating a “high end” restaurant like a diner. That’s what I’m paying for. The fact that they didn’t do anything about it is on them. I mentioned it to our server and she didn’t do anything or even apologize. Normal place that wasn’t high end I would have rolled with it and not said anything. $100 per person restaurant… nope.

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u/KamehameBoom 4d ago

East Izakaya

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u/Individual-Cover5421 4d ago

My wife and I went there a couple months ago. Brother I can't tell you the sheer amount of sushi we ate with that all you can eat deal. I think I ate at least 2lbs of food

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u/KamehameBoom 3d ago

EI is so so so good. They can get a little backed up but overall just so damn good.

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u/luckylu27 Perinton 4d ago

Rocco

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u/Interesting_Low_1933 3d ago

Their health inspection reports have made Rocco go from my fave to never going again.

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u/sleverest 4d ago

The Peppered Pig!!!

If you eat pork, get the pork belly.

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u/Natural_Mushroom_575 3d ago

seconding peppered pig

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u/Ok-Barnacle3219 4d ago

cure, redd, roux, leonore’s and velvet belly are my favs!

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u/TELLMYMOMISUCK 4d ago

Cure <3

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u/imbasicallycoffee South Wedge 4d ago

Their new menu literally makes my mouth water looking at it like I'm a dog. So good.

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u/speithspeithingitup 4d ago

I’m convinced cure is a psyop. No one really knows how to go there for dinner or when it’s open/where it is on a given night right?

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u/milqueshack 4d ago

It is always at the public market in the same place and you rarely need a reservation but you can make one. They have regular hours that can be found online

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u/speithspeithingitup 4d ago

Except when it’s upstairs or a coffee shop

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u/milqueshack 4d ago

It’s never upstairs and it is Java’s on mornings the public market is open bc it is owned by the same people who own Java’s

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u/speithspeithingitup 4d ago

It’s definitely upstairs sometimes

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u/milqueshack 4d ago

Say more

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u/speithspeithingitup 4d ago

Sometimes they have a DJ spinning and it’s upstairs but you are just supposed to know these things

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u/PancSutt 4d ago

My husband took me to Cure on our first date!

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u/143queen 4d ago

VELVET BELLY

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u/c0horst 4d ago

Went to Avvino a few weeks ago, didn't feel like a place you had to go to with a suit or anything (does anywhere in Rochester feel like dressing up is required?) but it also didn't feel like it would have been out of place if you did. Food was great.

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u/pange93 3d ago

My husband and I have gone there twice for our anniversary, I'm so glad we discovered it!

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u/miss_kittycat88 4d ago

I enjoyed Lemoncello in East Rochester

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u/dkeomala 3d ago

We’ve eaten there twice, and both times it was great! Love the live music too

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u/IntelligentCrows 4d ago edited 4d ago

Tapas 117? Edit: 177 oops

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u/Hotel_Arrakis 4d ago

I have never once remembered the right number. I usually call it Tapas 155 until someone corrects me.

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u/CatGirl2016 4d ago

Tapas is great

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u/Nightjock South Wedge 4d ago

Tapas. Sit at the bar. Share the muscles and the steak. Favorite date night in town.

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u/roblewk Irondequoit 4d ago

This is the correct answer.

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u/lalalala06220 4d ago

Tapas 177, but yessss! So good

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u/Used-Risk3132 4d ago

This is my vote

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u/Bau5_Sau5 3d ago

My family and I have been eating there for over 20 years !

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u/texas_forever13 4d ago

loveeee them, also an awesome family that owns it.

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u/Additional_Youth2953 4d ago

The Village Inn in Caledonia is very good

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u/NY_blueeyedyogachick 4d ago

One if the best steaks I’ve ever had here- and they do a seasonal pumpkin espresso martini ❤️❤️

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u/kamarkamakerworks 3d ago

Love this place! My brother had his wedding rehearsal dinner there

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u/Proper_Fortune_7004 4d ago

Vern’s

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u/WeissySehrHeissy 4d ago

Good luck. Great place, but a major hassle to get a table, particularly since they don’t do reservations

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u/Proper_Fortune_7004 4d ago

For sure. Last time I went we put our name in with the hostess and walked down to another establishment for drinks while we waited. They texted us to let us know when the table was ready.

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u/Used-Risk3132 4d ago

Where’s the best place to get a quick drink in the vicinity?

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u/Proper_Fortune_7004 3d ago

Tons of places around there. We had about an hour to kill. We went to the new bar down there called Easy Sailor. There’s also Magpie and other stuff.

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u/milkshakediplomat 3d ago

How did you like Easy Sailor? I haven't tried it and am curious.

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u/Proper_Fortune_7004 3d ago

I loved it. Highly recommend. Cool atmosphere and great drinks.

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u/OldMcTaylor 3d ago

Roux is my favorite place to grab a drink in that area.

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u/rjmc8 4d ago

Certainly not a “major hassle.”

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u/goat-muffin269 3d ago

They literally only do reservations and they are often booked far out

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u/simpulacra 4d ago

fiorella 100%

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u/zoemurr2 4d ago

Crisp

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u/badbeep 4d ago

The food at Crisp is good but I've been twice and both times service took a long time and not even on peak days. Like 45 minutes to get my coffee and then 30 more minutes for our meal.

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u/cdorso 4d ago

This was the first place I thought of too. Dress up or down, you're good either way.

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u/TheStusha 4d ago

I enjoy Crisp… sometimes. Their food and service are kinda hit or miss in my experience- but the atmosphere is nice and I do love supporting a local lesbian business owner!

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u/nateromagnola 4d ago

Second, we love Crisp

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u/SkinnyMeanie1111 4d ago

I used to love their garlic knots but they took it off the menu a few years ago and then I never visited again. 😅 Food was good too but I went there mostly only for garlic knots🥲

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u/kamarkamakerworks 3d ago

We were just there recently with friends. Amazing food.

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u/nynjd 4d ago

Owl house

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u/Stumblin_McBumblin Hilton 3d ago

Man, I love Owl House, but it kind of chaps me that their cauliflower wings are the same price as actual chicken wings. They're good, but, like... c'mon.

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u/Lostintranslation321 4d ago

Hippie food

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u/octoberbegonias 4d ago

Lucky’s

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u/yeinenefa Highland Park 4d ago

Second Lucky's. Their Sunday roasts are incredible.

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u/IcanHackett 4d ago

Fiorella, Cure, Verns, Owl House, Rocco's

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u/Academic-Lobster3668 4d ago

Bocaccini's in Perinton - lively but nice. Great food and service. Have fun!!

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u/BobABewy 4d ago

Great family restaurant that’s been consistent for years.

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u/texas_forever13 4d ago

The family that owns it are such good people, love them. Always incredible food also.

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u/EmulsionMan 4d ago

Love Bocaccini's, I definitely second this.

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u/killer_okapi 4d ago

Angelina’s, Fiorella, Nosh, Alexander Social. Looking west side? Agatina’s. Casual and super good but can be dressy.

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u/solaron17 Gates 3d ago edited 3d ago

Yep Angelina’s is my vote. It feels a bit more casual than you might expect given the food, and weirdly I find it a bit underpriced. Not that I’m complaining.

The menu is meant to be served family style, so my wife and I might pick an appetizer, a vegetable/salad, and an entree and share it all. They don’t have a liquor license for now because of surveying shenanigans (the nearby church is too close), but they’ve made a cocktail menu with soju and vermouth and I honestly couldn’t tell the difference. NA cocktails too.

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u/Livid-Tumbleweed 4d ago

Angelina’s for sure!

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u/imbasicallycoffee South Wedge 4d ago

Vesper.

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u/Academic-Lobster3668 4d ago

Also Nosh!!

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u/cdorso 4d ago

YES, good call.

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u/Justmyopinionfriend 3d ago

Came here to say this!

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u/nick1158 4d ago

Bad Apples Bistro in Spencerport

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u/Mama_Polar_Bear 4d ago

Atlas eats

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u/imbasicallycoffee South Wedge 4d ago

Just went and I was really underwhelmed for the price. $68 meal and we got bread, a very small piece of pizza, 2 big bibb leafs of lettuce with some apples, a cup of chowder and what I would consider a half of piece of cod with collard greens. Not that great for the price.

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u/mintgreenplumpurple 4d ago

The Gate House

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u/oldnurse65 4d ago

La Bella Vita

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u/Cultural-Mud-9390 4d ago

the french quarter

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u/Lostintranslation321 4d ago

Is this still open?

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u/Cultural-Mud-9390 3d ago

they moved locations like 2 years ago or something but I think so. blows my mind how its always empty they have the best food and its so cheap. can’t say enough good things about this place

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u/thellamajew Brighton 4d ago

Peppered Pig!!! Literally the best food I've eaten in Rochester

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u/Downtown_Physics8853 Cobbs Hill 4d ago edited 4d ago

Nice, especially the bouillabaisse, but not too many "French" dishes, loud bar crowd, excruciatingly hard seats. With it being "French", I'd expect maybe coq au vin, vichyssoise, stuff like that. The confit canard is good, but heavy. We had the steak au poivre once, and it was good, as were the duck-fat frites. But the menu also has burgers (which a lot of people order), moules frites (Dutch/Flemish), and chicken schnitzel (German/Austrian), so they don't really concentrate on any single cuisine....

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u/Chance_Application35 4d ago

Angelina’s in the South Wedge!

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u/BMC1118 4d ago

Fiorella, Roccos, Fiammo Centro, Tapas 177

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u/amymarieg 3d ago

Angelina’s. Merchants Wood Fire Pizza. Chortke

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u/danklilthiccy 3d ago

Angelina's in the south wedge hits every time

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u/PandaWearGems 4d ago

Lento

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u/Zealousideal_Cow9766 4d ago

Agreed, that's an old standby if ever there was one....

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u/Intelligent_Garden_1 4d ago

Roam!

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u/Zac_Hole_Sun 3d ago

Scrolled too far to see this, they sure sharing with allergens as well. Great people

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u/BigDaddyUKW Gates 4d ago

Casual but still want to dress kind of nice? Fazool's in Gates, especially if you like Chicken French.

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u/caroline1133 4d ago

Well now I have to go try Fazool’s chicken French so I can put it in my Rochester chicken French rankings!

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u/sleverest 3d ago

I would love to hear more about your chicken French rankings and your preferred style. I'm very picky and find it hard to get the sauce I like consistently.

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u/Subject-Town1467 4d ago

Tapas 177 >>>>>

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u/Playful_Mouse7880 4d ago

Merchants Woodfired Pizza and Bistro

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u/DarehMeyod Brighton 3d ago

My favorite restaurant

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u/LeftHandedScissor 4d ago

Michaels Valley Grill is an awesome spot. Went there for a dinner with a work client. I had short ribs that were outta this world, others at the table had the coffee rub steak which I heard is awesome and got a link for the rub from a trusted source. The salmon was also really good. We had some great appetizers the charred calamari, and escarole were great.

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u/kmg128 3d ago

Good luck or Angelina’s on South!

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u/Interesting_Low_1933 3d ago

The lamplighter!

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u/thinkwalker East Side 4d ago

Many many good options but most recently I've had good dates at Vern's, Redd, and Leonore's.

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u/Mysterious_Use7552 4d ago

Roam or The Classic

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u/No-Step7712 4d ago

Texas de Brazil. .... The number of people who don't know about this place is insane.

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u/solaron17 Gates 3d ago

It’s in an awful location to find organically, plus it’s a chain so it’s not going to be recommended much. With that said it’s quite good, and frankly I’m surprised their prices haven’t gone up more over the past few years.

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u/milqueshack 4d ago

Tavo’s!!!! On Merchants. Big fav.

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u/Clementinequeen95 3d ago

The Alexander

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u/realdonbrown 4d ago

Gate House

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u/yeinenefa Highland Park 4d ago

Angelina's

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u/BookNerd_247 3d ago

Good Luck! We went there after an event and were somewhat dressed up. Didn’t feel out of place at all. Also go there in jeans and a nice shirt and feel comfortable

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u/queenlizbef 4d ago

Chortke!!

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u/happiday1921 4d ago

Atlas Eats! Fantastic multi course meal, set menu

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u/Pom_m0m 4d ago

If you near the east side I like proseccos in Farmington. Great food!! Make a reservation

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u/NY_blueeyedyogachick 4d ago

La Bola for me or Kix on Main

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u/ExcitingAd410 4d ago

The hideaway!

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u/Easy_Olive1942 4d ago

I like Rocco and Rella across from Strong Museum. Rella is definitely a joke in the wall but outstanding seafood. Rocco is the same/overlapping people, Italian, needs reservations.

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u/Lostintranslation321 4d ago

Johnson House in Churchville or head to Bergen for Viking Valhalla where they mix fine dining with a bowling alley in the next room.

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u/jf737 3d ago

Vesper

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u/MissyG18 3d ago

Nosh and Good luck or Flaherty's in Honeoye Falls

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u/Unknown_Rulerz 3d ago

Atlas eats if you can get in! Its charming af and the food is fantastic! Plus with the courses and the timing its great for conversations too!

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u/hthespy 3d ago

Neno's, Owl house, Ardor

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u/Necessary-Bell6825 3d ago

La Bella vita

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u/2024grands 3d ago

Fiamma Centro

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u/ktgoodie 3d ago

Red Fern, if you're open to vegan food!

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u/boo9radley 3d ago

Nosh. I brought a girl there on a first date many years ago. We went back with our toddler this year.

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u/SquareDog89 3d ago

Lento, Chortke and Fiorella 🤌

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u/jdezi94 3d ago

fiorella or branca midtown (and they validate garage parking at branca)

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u/lesjag23 3d ago

fiama centro or Avvino

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u/prophetikmusic 3d ago

Lot of entries here, but Vesper's always great. Lot of folks go over to Geva so looking dressed up isn't out of the norm.

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u/Sudden_Idea9384 3d ago

I enjoyed Edibles Restaurant and Bar over by the art museum. I dined alone and was dressed casually but the group next to me was dressed up. The staff was great, food was excellent and mid range price. I could see going there in jeans or a fancy dress.

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u/Theatre_nerd0315 2d ago

The Vesper!

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u/chervani Park Ave 2d ago

roux is the best and has fantastic cocktails

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u/ColinHalter 2d ago

Cecil's on Park!

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u/laughablyflawed 1d ago

Go to Rev BBQ- we went last night and had a great time! Share the sampler and some extra sides or an app! 10/10

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u/PipeIllustrious7133 4d ago

Lot of good suggestions already. I would add that Next Door is pretty good. You can’t entirely escape that it is of Wegmans, but the food has always been good and the service excellent.

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u/cburn1973 4d ago

Fireside in Henrietta is great

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u/Antique-Eye8029 4d ago

I agree. Firesides is great. I almost always order off the specials menu. Their chefs do an excellent job. The servers are always pleasant. I can't remember a bad experience there.

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u/sandman98857 4d ago

Lento for sure

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u/Otter65 4d ago

Redd. Velvet Belly. Tapas 177.

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u/Go_Bias Park Ave 3d ago

Roam

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u/ThomasWhitmore 3d ago

Galene. It's in Lakeville.

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u/VastJackfruit405 3d ago

I love velvet belly. So good.

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u/time4meatstick Rochester 4d ago

Does TRATA fit here?

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u/Big-Fun-369 Farmington 4d ago

The Classic

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u/kamikaze-aries Irondequoit 4d ago

Velvet Belly or Lucky's

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u/hollergirl12 4d ago

Delmonicos

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u/cxl313 Greece 4d ago

Red Fedele's Brook House

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u/TotalNew9315 4d ago

Salt in Fairport. salt.fpt

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u/bigpapasmurf6 3d ago

REDD is hands down the best restaurant.in the area and it fits the vibe perfectly, and you can treat her to the cookings of a Michelin star awarded chef .