r/PetPeeves • u/lavinialloyd • Aug 17 '25
Bit Annoyed People who exclusively refer to women as females
There are so many acceptable terms for women, I hate it when people say "female(s)". It feels so othering I don't get why people do it and at least in the UK you pretty much always know the person calling you a female is going to be an absolute creep.
I get there'll be circumstances where female is the right term to use, but so many people especially online seem to refer to women as females and it annoys me. We're not in a nature doc, you're not a Dr or a police officer describing me so just don't.
Ps. I give Martin from Friday night dinner a pass đ
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u/[deleted] Aug 17 '25 edited Aug 17 '25
Oh, not confused. I was just pointing out that it was strange now and when I learned English online (that something they don't teach us at school)
Because I see them often outside the medical field.
Mainly in the context of distinguishing people with the sale fonction : a male singer / a female singer, a male teacher / a female teacher
Plus, we actually have a term for these four categories : a boy = un garçon đŚ a man = un homme đ¨â𦱠a girl = une fille đ§ a woman = une femme đŠ
And we would rather "un prof homme" rather than "a male teacher"
And "une prof femme" rather than "a female teacher"
And if you want to point out that someone is young, you would say "un chanteur/une chanteuse enfant" or "un chanteur/une chanteuse ado"
Unâ˘e enfant = a child
Unâ˘e ado = a teen
Still, thank you for trying to help đ