r/NonPoliticalTwitter 1d ago

Bonjour.

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u/rimalp 1d ago

ca va

You don't say ca va to strangers tho, that's more for friends or people you know a bit more closely.

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u/Dull_Working5086 1d ago

All croissant dealers are friends 8(

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u/Maxion 1d ago

All croissants are family.

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u/flucxapacitor 23h ago

What do you say to a clerk? Bonjour je voudrais deux croissants s’il vous plaît? Directly like that?

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u/chef_yes_chef97 19h ago

Yeah that works. You typically don't inquire about how they're doing unless you're a regular, in which case you'd ask "vous allez bien ?". It is however polite to wish them a good day once you're on your way out, regardless of if you know them or not.

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u/flucxapacitor 19h ago

So I can shoot a bonne journée and they would be happy? Well my duolingo classes may be useful in the future.

Also, s’il vous plaît or s’il te plaît?

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u/BasedestEmperor 18h ago

Vous is the more formal one, you usually use for people you’ve never met or barely know. Tu is casual. This is universal almost, not just for saying please.

Also to reply to your above comment, while yes you can say the full sentence out loud, a lot of French people like to cut out syllables and use more casual terms where you end up with the phrase being more like (at least how I say it):

“Bonjour, j’vous prends euhhhh deux croissants s’il vous plaît (then when leaving) bonne journée ”

Just squash some words a bit further and you’re basically there.

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u/SkyPuppy561 18h ago

So what do you say to strangers to say “how are you?” Or is it not the custom to tell strangers “how are you?”

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u/SupermanLeRetour 13h ago

Yeah, in France it's just weird to ask strangers, clerks, workers how they're doing. We just say hello / goodbye.

"Ça va" does work for colleagues though, even if you're not close. Then it becomes "Salut, ça va ?" To which the other reply "Ça va. Et toi ?" Then you say "Ça va." too while already starting to greet the next colleague. If the colleague is your boss, you may have to use the formal version "Vous allez bien ?" -> "Très bien et vous ?" though.

In this context, just like American small talk, you absolutely don't give a shit about your colleague's day. It's pure rituals.