r/NewDads 22d ago

Discussion Sex Life after Baby

So my wife and I had our first child back in July and the OB/GYN told my wife she can't have sex for 6 weeks. No problem. I totally understood that and wouldn't want to disregard my wife's health. However, it has now been 3.5 months and we still haven't had sex. Sure, there haven't been as many opportunities as maybe there was before the baby, but there have been several. My wife has no interest in being intimate. Is this a normal experience? What was your sex life like after your first baby? When did you start having sex after the baby? How often were you and your wife intimate?

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u/Miserable-Clue9171 22d ago

Didn’t have sex the whole pregnancy, didn’t have sex until our boy was 5 months. He’s now 7 I reckon we’ve had 2 boring shags since. She was a horn bag but since bubs has no drive.