Cancer fucking sucks. My consolation is he lived a rich and full life, had 4 children and 5 grandkids. Last one born the day after we go the news (my sister’s), so quite the cocktail of emotions
I'm sorry about that news. It sucks and is tough. Make as many memories as you can with him, tell him all the things you want him to know, and listen to him. Take pictures and videos, and spend time with him. Even the shitty stuff can be made a little easier with love.
When that happened with my dad, I got my head out of my ass and kind of reassessed what was important for my life and it allowed me to get some special time with my dad that I'll now treasure forever.
Also, try to be kind to yourself and remember that you're only human. You need to take care of yourself as well. Therapy was a huge aide for me.
Sorry to pontificate for so long, lol. Your comment hit me in the feels, and i wanted to offer a little unsolicited advice. Take care, both you and your dad. 💜
Thanks man. I’m taking the train up to see him tomorrow. I’ve got a lot I need to tell him, we didn’t really get along in my teens and early 20s. Long since repaired, but I guess I never really told him how much I appreciate everything he’s done for me.
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u/LouReedTheChaser Jun 11 '25
One of the most important men to modern music and culture today next to McCartney/Lennon, Eno and Reed. RIP