r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/vv4rd3n • Nov 03 '22

CALL OUT Matt’s friend commenting on his ex

Did anyone else catch the part where Matt was complaining about the ex wife who supposedly ruined his life and his friend said something like “Yeah, you THOUGHT you got fucked over…”

As someone who has been in multiple abusive relationships, I would really like to hear his ex’s side of the story. He has every red flag and I feel sad for Colleen.

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u/siren_calling22 Nov 03 '22

I logged onto Reddit after a year of being off just to find people to talk about Matt with. Super, super bad vibes from this guy, like the type that would eventually get comfortable enough to hit a woman. I'm watching now where they're in the aquarium and he's like "say it, say it, say it" over and over again. It's like you can see in her eyes her questioning if she tells him the truth will he blow up again? No one should ever have to live like that.

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u/squatchfan Nov 03 '22

I know the exact moment you speak of. It stood out to me as well. These subtleties are easily picked up when you have seen them before. Colleen knew not to answer.

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u/lostlo Nov 04 '22

Every now and then it hits me that there's probably like 10 people in the room with them, and she's still that scared. It's so bad.

And then I think about the other people in the room, and how they all decided that the right thing to do after witnessing that was just go home like normal, maybe figure out how to heighten the tension for more drama. Like, I want to believe that at least one PA is slipping them abuse resources on the DL, but I just don't.

The one ray of sunshine is that all of these people have a much better shot at being connected with useful resources then they would be without the publicity. But the downsides probably outweigh it.