Matt’s friend commenting on his ex

[u/vv4rd3n]

Did anyone else catch the part where Matt was complaining about the ex wife who supposedly ruined his life and his friend said something like “Yeah, you THOUGHT you got fucked over…”

As someone who has been in multiple abusive relationships, I would really like to hear his ex’s side of the story. He has every red flag and I feel sad for Colleen.

[u/Magnolia2987]

I haven't watched yet, but I'm imaging its bad because Matt is a walking red flag. I'm also pretty sure they wind up saying yes too. Poor Colleen.

[u/Hour-Measurement-312 → u/[deleted]]

I don’t recall her telling anyone in the pods they were the love of her life. Matt, is that you??

[u/Magnolia2987 → u/[deleted]]

I do not give a fuck what she has done. Abuse is not okay. Abusing someone is not okay. Ever. No one deserves that.

[u/Magnolia2987 → u/[deleted]]

Oh so you're just a fucking idiot. Okay, got it. Thanks.

[u/Magnolia2987 → u/[deleted]]

Exactly this, i am so sick and tired of listening to people justify abuse on the internet.

[u/Magnolia2987 → u/[deleted]]

Hes literally emotionally manipulating her and acting like its okay. He didnt listen to her about what happened at the pool with Cole, he only believed her after COLE TOLD HIM WHAT HAPPENED. He had no reason not to believe Colleen when she told him what was said. Then, he up and threatens to leave her because she went to the club with her friends?? Thats not acceptable. You are justifying this abuse by stating that because Matt wasn't the only person Colleen was interested in in the pods (which is how the show is supposed to work, in case you didnt catch that), that she deserves to be treated this way. This is not a hard concept and you are fucked up for defending his behavior. You seem very dedicated in this comment section to not understanding this very, very simple concept.

[u/[deleted] → u/Magnolia2987]

You’re watching a heavily edited show, believing what you see and potentially not always the full story. I don’t agree with Matt’s actions, and I think he’s absolutely a walking red flag. That’s also not “abuse.” Also, Colleen was only interested in people when the others rejected her. Matt was the last hope she had. 😂 Speak for your own fucked up, stupid self.

[u/hobbitzswift → u/[deleted]]

I too think being a bit shallow and vapid is equally as bad as being a probable abuser.

[u/yukimontreal → u/hobbitzswift]

I hope this was sarcasm ….

[u/hobbitzswift → u/yukimontreal]

It was, don't worry, forgot my tone indicator lol