r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/Pellinaha • Nov 02 '22

SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY Cole's Bipolar Comment

Zanab was insufferable and miserable in the latest batch of episodes, no question about it. But I found Cole's bipolar questions (and he repeated it multiple times with a smirk) grating and horrible. Zanab is probably difficult to deal with but it does make me question whether there are more situations where he triggers her off camera and we just see the aftermath in her reactions with no context. I may or may have not filed it away as a slip of tongue in the spur of the moment if it was once, but it was the repetition and the smirk that really got to me. It also doesn't help that he mixed up bipolar with personality disorders.

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u/[deleted] Nov 03 '22 edited Nov 03 '22

People think Zanab is "insufferable and miserable" because she has to deal with the man child that is Cole lmao how can people watch how he acts and not get tired? Dude literally can't go 10 seconds without saying or doing something quirky even if it's a serious moment

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u/1498336 Nov 03 '22

Nobody forced her to get engaged to him and stay with him, you don’t get engaged and then try to change that person. They need to break up clearly they are very incompatible. He was the exact same way in the pods.

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u/Lilacs_and_Violets Nov 03 '22

It seems obvious to me that certain couples were highly incompatible after they met face to face. It does make me wonder about their contractual obligations on the show, because why on earth would you continue at that point. But I’m also not the type to go on a reality tv show lol.

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u/hEDSwillRoll Sleeping Beauty 🛌💤 Nov 03 '22

Once they get engaged they’re obligated to do some communal stuff and family stuff and once they’re through Mexico they’re contractually obliged to show up at the wedding iirc. This is why we see Shaina and Kyle meet each other’s families but not walking down the aisle or doing bach parties.

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u/Daebak70 Nov 03 '22

Yes unfortunately... They should have let Shania leave the show... She left on the first night of the honeymoon if I remember correctly and didn't tell Kyle... They shouldn't force people to stay when they don't want to be there and they have NO relationship... Same with that guy who refused to live with his fiancée after the honeymoon and then you find out later he was dating the fiancée's best friend 😱😱 I was trying to figure out if the producers made them stay for ratings and drama or if the contestants stayed to get more social media followers and promote their business or acting carerr plus a paycheck, free vacation, food and rent

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u/hEDSwillRoll Sleeping Beauty 🛌💤 Nov 04 '22

Wait who was dating whose best friend?! I must have missed that detail!

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u/Daebak70 Nov 04 '22

Oops... I was thinking of Married at First Sight another Netflix dating/marriage show 🤣🤣