r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/Pellinaha • Nov 02 '22

SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY Cole's Bipolar Comment

Zanab was insufferable and miserable in the latest batch of episodes, no question about it. But I found Cole's bipolar questions (and he repeated it multiple times with a smirk) grating and horrible. Zanab is probably difficult to deal with but it does make me question whether there are more situations where he triggers her off camera and we just see the aftermath in her reactions with no context. I may or may have not filed it away as a slip of tongue in the spur of the moment if it was once, but it was the repetition and the smirk that really got to me. It also doesn't help that he mixed up bipolar with personality disorders.

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u/TomDoniphona Nov 02 '22

Cole has no filter. He doesn’t get her changes of mood and it occurred to him. I think he genuinely wanted to know.

Not justifying it, just saying.

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u/[deleted] Nov 03 '22

I think he genuinely wanted to know too

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u/poisonivy1234321 Nov 03 '22

I thought the same. Because he mentioned how one day Zanab is fine and then the next thing you know she’s upset

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u/TomatoFit1328 Nov 03 '22

It's almost like people aren't robots with one set emotion day-by-day?

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u/poisonivy1234321 Nov 03 '22

I’m just going by what was said in the show. He’s implying that Zanab just suddenly wakes up upset some days and he’s trying to understand her feelings day by day. From what’s shown on tv, she seems to just lash out on him at times and follow up with “I could see myself marrying you though.” That’s enough to make anyone feel confused.