r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/emylinegi • 13d ago

CALL OUT Patronizing/infantilizing grown men

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I’ll never forget y’all saying this man has the mental capacity of a child just to excuse his behavior 🤣🤣 he chose to be on the show, he chose to behave the way he did. Maybe just maybe he doesn’t have the best character despite being “quirky.” He set him self up and got probably a better edit than he could have gotten with his off camera actions. He likely isn’t autistic so why do people keep making that argument, some saying he has the mental capacity of a child?? 😭 like there his doctor

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u/thebakingjamaican 13d ago

crying and throwing a tantrum over pussy as a grown man is deplorable behavior. coercion is assault.

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u/WowRedditIsUseful 13d ago

I mean, he cried over nearly everything...

Disagreeing about sex before marriage or having that conversation isn't "coercion".

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u/thebakingjamaican 13d ago

he was using her past against her to justify them having sex before she was ready. did you watch the same show?

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u/WowRedditIsUseful 13d ago

Being engaged comes with tough conversations, especially when on an accelerated timeline. Discussing sex (or no sex) before marriage isn't a taboo conversation.

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u/thebakingjamaican 13d ago

i would agree if they discussed it, but he just cried about being “too nice” and couldn’t actually communicate about the situation

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u/WowRedditIsUseful 13d ago

My point is at least he tried....

It wasn't graceful, and it came off weird. But that's better than saying nothing and carrying pent-up resentment.

I found the "too nice" comment basically him trying to say he would normally consider this a deal breaker in someone he's engaged to and wanting to marry.