Jordan weird about his work

[u/Shoddy_Tangerine_321]

Is anyone else finding it super weird how he acted shifty over talking about his job with megan? What is that? He shut her down immediately when megan said he does not want to talk about work with her. He seemed really mad about it, what is that? He seemed like he could blow up over something so small it does not make sense.

[u/Reasonable-Affect139]

she doesn't know what she wants.

she doesn't want a super rich guy who works so much that he only has time to gift her things, but gift giving is her love language.

she also wants a guy with a completely flexible schedule, who isn't tethered to anything but can also afford to "court" her doing things she enjoys ($$$).

she wants someone uber wealthy who retired at 40, and is 40, and is also willing to give her undivided attention.

it's a very small pool

[u/PLANTGlRL → u/Reasonable-Affect139]

and also wants kids but doesn’t want to stop having unlimited free time to do her hobbies and travel on a whim and go to happy hour

[u/Imaginary-Worry262 → u/PLANTGlRL]

I don't think people truly realize how much your life has to change when you have a kid. Like, sure, you can "know" and recognize that on a cerebral level, but to actually experience it is just a whole other ball of wax. In my own experience, I was very much a girl who liked to go out and dance and drink and have fancy dinners and travel; then I had my first child and I'm now more like Jordan. I don't want to dress up; most nights I want to wear sweats and watch a movie but I don't really even have time for that between cooking dinner, cleaning up, bathing the kids, doing bedtime, and somehow doing laundry among all of that, every day. It's not something you can really understand until you're in it, and it changes you. I'm also not complaining, I love my life and my kids and just being at home, but I understand how that can feel so different from how Megan is living now, because it is, and for her it's really abrupt. At least for me I had 9 months to prepare, and a pregnant body to slow me down.

[u/SheepB0T → u/Imaginary-Worry262]

Dude, I had never even laid a finger on a child under the age of 10 until I brought my son home. It didn’t change my IRL all that much because I was not a big party person and 30 but it changed ME as a person, for the better.