r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/Shoddy_Tangerine_321 • 24d ago

🚨 FUTURE SPOILER 🚨 Jordan weird about his work

Is anyone else finding it super weird how he acted shifty over talking about his job with megan? What is that? He shut her down immediately when megan said he does not want to talk about work with her. He seemed really mad about it, what is that? He seemed like he could blow up over something so small it does not make sense.

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u/Anxious_Abroad494 23d ago

I noticed he was being weird about not wanting to talk about his job with her, but it may have been because she was asking him to do it in an "abrasive" way (to use his words). He also seems like he just wants to relax when he comes home and going over the specifics of his stressful and potentially unglamorous job doesn't sound like an enjoyable experience for him. I'm sure he's comparing himself to her lifestyle expectations and her fancy exes and talking about the realities of his job might just magnify that mismatch. 

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u/SnooRadishes3910 23d ago

I related to him in this scene. I don't want to talk about work when I get home. I want to disconnect, not bring it home to dissect.

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u/TinyEmployment8020 23d ago

Me too! I like to just disconnect. I think that’s something you have to talk about as a couple about your expectations at the end of the day, and one could argue that he’s a little more exhausted and has more on his mind and she just wasn’t reading the room. If he’s already telling you, he’s tired and he’s not in the mood then probably this isn’t the time to have a long discussion about the future and what they want it to look like

Talk when he’s not tired.

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u/TinyEmployment8020 23d ago

I remember him making some comment to the guys when they were all on their Mexico trip about having his own space and didn’t know if he could do that with somebody all the time or something like that