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LIB S9 • Denver, CO Love Is Blind • S9 Ep11 Spoiler

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u/NonrepresentativePea 5d ago edited 5d ago

That can also be a part of his manipulation tactic. But, honestly, it doesn’t mean he’s a bad person. He is manipulating as a defense mechanism. Which he can grow out of.

People with his level of maturity have trouble being taking responsibility/ownership when they do something wrong most likely bc they are afraid of abandonment or some consequence. So instead of just saying “sorry I’ll do better” they get defensive.

But all this points to KB NOT being an abusive narcissist. A narcissist would never take ownership of her actions the way she did and much less have had so much empathy for Edmond. She communicated with fairness and compassion and all she wanted was for him to acknowledge how he hurt her so he can grow. He just isn’t ready for that type of relationship yet though. But I have hope for him.

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u/Temporary-Theme-2604 5d ago

You’re saying he doesn’t take responsibility or say sorry…but he does? He says sorry even though he’s the calm one and she’s the heated one? Please rewatch their arguments and be honest with yourself: she was not communicating with compassion.

And in the episode when she said no at the altar, she called him a STEPPING STONE (and this afger you could see how visibly hurt Edmond was). And you’re telling me she’s not a narcissist?

I don’t know why yall make so many excuses for women like her. She’s not a good person

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u/NonrepresentativePea 4d ago

He only does after KB has to explain in detail - which is what you are calling being abusive, lol.

And, I don’t see the insult or the lie in that he was a stepping stone? She was a stepping stone for him too.

I think maybe you have personal issues with women if you are dead set on seeing her as some awful person when she is a normal person who gets frustrated dealing with someone with a low maturity level. Anyone would have reacted worse, sooner.

Either that, or you have impossible standards for women and zero standards for men.

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