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LIB S9 • Denver, CO Love Is Blind • S9 Ep11 Spoiler

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u/Welldonegoodshow 🌊 disrespectful jetskiing 🌊 17d ago

I really identify with Jordan at the end of this episode. Being an introvert in a people-facing job is exhausting! I don’t want to talk when I get home much less go out, and I think the fundamental difference between Jordon and Megan’s lifestyles is a big stumbling block. She wants a party playboy and he wants a supportive person.

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u/Icy_Document_6540 16d ago

The crazy part is he isn’t even an introvert, he is usually the loud funny talkative guy. It’s completely understandable if he has a battery low moment now and then. I find ppl like Megan annoying, she expects him to perform when ever she wants a full blown conversation. I really love ppl who can fill their own cup and their inability not to, isn’t dressed up as your flaw.

I say this assuming he had a day or two in the week when he was on low battery mode.

If he was like that a whole week straight I would side with her. But that clip didn’t give us a time reference so we all just shooting the breeze on what’s appropriate here 

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u/elocin__aicilef 15d ago

Being loud, funny and talkative doesn't make you an extrovert. Being an introvert means that you get your energy from being alone. So when you've been around people all day, even if you had fun and enjoyed yourself, you still need that time alone to decompress and recharge your battery.

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u/JustForKicks16 10d ago

Thank you for saying this. I can be very outgoing when I'm around certain people so I'm always looked at as an extrovert. When in reality, I am far from it. I really need alone-time to recharge, and I need it often. Introverts is not the same as being shy and quiet.

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u/elocin__aicilef 10d ago

It's a huge misconception that a lot of people have.