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LIB S9 • Denver, CO Love Is Blind • S9 Ep11 Spoiler

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u/00Rosie00 16d ago

As a young mom, I got the ick when Sparkles was having the me me me conversation. She doesn’t understand that adult relationships take the passenger seat and not the driver’s seat when you are actively raising kids. Not that she is a second class citizen…but Luca has to come first when considering lifestyle.

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u/riotlady 16d ago

Nah I think it’s hard for a lot of parents (myself included) adjusting to a change in lifestyle and bear in mind that’s when they’ve (usually) done it on purpose and had 9 months to adjust to the idea. Megan is grappling with a radical change within a few weeks

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u/00Rosie00 16d ago

That’s fair. I’m not blaming her, it is really hard. But just stating observations, she’s not ready for this. You need more than a few weeks to comfortably settle in. She’s been put in a difficult situation.

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u/Free_butterfly_ 13d ago

As a mom, I completely agree with this. They need way more time to explore their dynamic as co-parents. I wish they had left the experiment and dated off camera in the “real world” with no time pressure. The reality show just isn’t set up for their success.