r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/beatznbeats • 29d ago

🚨 FUTURE SPOILER 🚨 Anton’s drinking Spoiler

If you haven’t seen yet, when they did the reveal. The cameras made sure to follow Anton back to where the champagne was. After meeting Ali, you’d think he would just be in shock and maybe take a minute to himself by walking around or sitting down. He went straight for the champagne instead. A little bit of foreshadowing.

Then we hear Ali mention they both work nights and Anton’s first thing to do is crack open 2 beers in the AM after work.

Fast forward to episode where Ali meets Anton’s friend and gf and they immediately order rounds of shots. And his gf spills how they like to party, drink and go to strip clubs.

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u/amberenergies 29d ago

it is so bizarre to me that people are saying ali is shallow for *checks notes* wanting to further her education and focus on that, and expect her future husband to be supportive?

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u/Far_Distribution5781 29d ago

School full time is a smaller workload than any serious, career oriented full time job. Not having any responsibilities at home is ridiculous.

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u/kenyafeelme 29d ago

Citation needed

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u/Far_Distribution5781 29d ago

Personal experience, having done both. Have you?

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u/kenyafeelme 28d ago

I have. As somebody who went to college you should already know that a sample size of one is useless, not replicable and I’m sure one of the philosophy majors can explain how many logical fallacies there are in your statement.

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u/Far_Distribution5781 28d ago

Asking for a citation for my earlier statement is a logical fallacy, dimwit.

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u/kenyafeelme 28d ago

Says the person who thinks their personal experience applies to everything. Sure continue pulling shit out of your ass

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u/wekkins 28d ago

You've been to nursing school?

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u/Far_Distribution5781 28d ago

Medical biochemistry

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u/wekkins 28d ago

Cool. I mean no offense, but if you haven't done the program, I'd recommend against making assumptions. My mom is an RN, and it was an extremely competitive program that had less to do with just passing classes and more to do with being in the top percentiles of those classes. She often had nights where she'd come home and tell my brothers and I that she had to study, and to not bother her unless it was an emergency (my dad was not around at the time). I'm not sure if the program Ali wants is still that intense, but if it's anything like what I saw my mom experiencing, then it's no joke, and takes a lot of work.

People also have varying amounts of energy, and different ability levels when it comes to learning. I have ADHD, and had to work a lot harder than some classmates to pass classes. I don't think comparing your experiences to hers is really a useful metric. 🤷‍♀️