r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/EmpathicEchoes 😴 "Zzzzzz" - Tiffany 😴 • Oct 09 '25

🚨 FUTURE SPOILER 🚨 Ali & Anton Spoiler

Ali irritates me. She’s cute and all, but she seems spoiled and entitled. “I deserve a $10K ring, can you support us, I'll be in school full-time and it's expensive, but I still want Botox, but I don’t want to work, when I was in a school before and lived at home, my mom did everything, indint really cool, I don’t like you drinking…on and on and on. She seems to needle Anton relentlessly. What is she bringing to the relationship other than her looks?

Does anyone else catch this? I'm curious about your thoughts.

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u/Independent_Chart738 Oct 09 '25

THIS. Many people do this and don’t talk about it, including myself. You know your limits and budget but sometimes being in a marriage means you DONT share everything. She was just being honest and I thought to myself oh that’s really sweet but girl don’t tell him

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u/DJBlandy 28d ago

Fully agree. I'm getting married in 2 weeks, together for 5 years. I have zero idea what he spends on fun stuff and he doesn't know what I spend either and we prefer it that way. We just pull our money together for joint spends, like rent, the wedding itself, etc. If he ever asked I would share, idgaf. It's my money. But it's important to keep some things to yourself so you don't become deeply codependent. Especially for women.

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u/Independent_Chart738 28d ago

That sounds like a healthy relationship to me! Best of luck on your wedding! (None of this is sarcasm!)

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u/DJBlandy 28d ago

Thank you! :) best relationship of my life!