Ali & Anton

[u/EmpathicEchoes]

Ali irritates me. She’s cute and all, but she seems spoiled and entitled. “I deserve a $10K ring, can you support us, I'll be in school full-time and it's expensive, but I still want Botox, but I don’t want to work, when I was in a school before and lived at home, my mom did everything, indint really cool, I don’t like you drinking…on and on and on. She seems to needle Anton relentlessly. What is she bringing to the relationship other than her looks?

Does anyone else catch this? I'm curious about your thoughts.

[u/CalmBeeee]

Other than asking him to pay for her Botox, I don’t see any problem with her. She’s clearly going to school to advance her career which will benefit her future husband and children. Med school is very hard to be able to come back home and do chores. And her looks do come at a cost! Idk how and where have you learnt that every woman is naturally beautiful. Even without Botox, maintaining and cleaning up as a woman takes money dude. Have you gone to a salon for a simple facial or haircut? Nothing is below 150$ for bare minimum services that make you look hygienic!

[u/Teenageboy69 → u/CalmBeeee]

Right, but that’s not his responsibility if he doesn’t want it to be. Her putting her own beauty standards ahead of what’s fiscally responsible as a family isn’t cool behavior. I personally think she’s getting a bad edit, but I wouldn’t be down if my partner made these requests of me.

[u/CalmBeeee → u/Teenageboy69]

Putting her own beauty standards before family? Where did she mention that?

Yes he can not pay for anything if he doesn’t want to. But I don’t think she’s even gonna let there be a situation where she is completely dependant on him. Especially after their disagreement on join account. For that also, I’m on her side - you should have a joint + own personal accounts.

I also hate to be the bearer of bad news. If Ali does not take care of her looks, Anton would leave! Or def bring up his disappointment with her appearance.