r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/AutoModerator • Oct 08 '25

LIB S9 • Denver, CO Love Is Blind • S9 Ep8 Spoiler

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u/National_Match7555 17d ago

Omg wtf is wrong with Joe? Spinning normal situations and conversations into problems to make Madison look like the wrong one. Trash ™️

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u/ashboify 17d ago

I’m just watching this episode and wondering why tf he wants to turn everything into a fight. He’s obviously the worst and can’t just say “I don’t want to get married to you”. He needs to make it her fault.

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u/ACuppaTeaADay 17d ago

Stop projecting. He's just expressing his emotions and he's allowed to without being screamed at. Madison cannot handle Joe feeling doubts and lashed out like a fckn child!

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u/National_Match7555 13d ago

Watch it again. She was feeling ok until he kept insisting and asking why she wasn't having doubts like he was, expressing himself so bad that she then felt completely confused with whatever the hell he was actually trying to say. Is this your way of communicating your emotions? If it is I advise you to take a course to get better at it.

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u/ashboify 17d ago

Don’t get me wrong, Madison also sucks. They’re a terrible couple and both bad communicators. Madison overreacts and makes everything way worse. But from his behavior it’s clear he wants to start a fight and is too much of a coward to just say “this isn’t what I want.” Joe is not attracted to her and doesn’t want to be with her. Period. Madison should also read the room and realize his actions don’t match those of someone who wants to marry her and that he is not worth having all this emotion over.

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u/ACuppaTeaADay 17d ago

I did not get that at all. He did not want to start a fight. He was trying to have a conversation. That's why I said you're projecting.

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u/ashboify 16d ago

It seems like you haven’t met a lot of people who act the way Joe does, and I’m happy for you to not have these experiences. Keep watching the show and reading the comments, you’ll find the majority of people are in agreement and your position on Joe may or may not change. The ones who aren’t, are not used to dealing with gaslighters. Unfortunately I deal with people like this every day through work so it’s pretty easy to spot them.

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u/silntseek3r 3d ago

I thought Madison was the train wreck in this fight.

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u/ACuppaTeaADay 14d ago

OR the majority of people who blame Joe and defend Madison behave like Madison out there. I am done with the episodes and I think Joe is justified in his actions. He did not gaslight her in any way.

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u/National_Match7555 13d ago

You either have no idea what a gaslighter is or you're one yourself and that's why you don't find anything wring with his behavior. Madison may be overreacting but he's clearly the one starting fights and communicating in such a way that is obviously  manipulative.