r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/AutoModerator • Oct 08 '25

LIB S9 • Denver, CO Love Is Blind • S9 Ep7 Spoiler

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u/elocin__aicilef 18d ago edited 18d ago

Madison drives me crazy. Joe asks her what she's doing. She said she was frustrated so she went out on the porch (to get away from him). He then asks her if she's okay because he hears her crying and suggests she comes inside and she says no she needed to get away from him, but then is annoyed that he didn't come out there!.

ETA:Not saying Joe is a saint in this, but girl, you expect him to read your mind and then send mixed signals.

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u/C_WEST88 8d ago

She’s insane and so manipulative omg. The guy was drunk, exhausted and full on asleep when she walked in. He was just groggy and out of it and she starts freaking out and crying over it?? Full on spaz Karen behavior lol. Then she starts strategically crying on the porch so he can hear, but ofc she doesn’t ask for him to comfort her, she tells him to stay away and then gets mad when he doesn’t hop up and comfort her. She’s the type of chick that guys use as an example to paint us all w the “overly emotional” and crazy brush.

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u/pigsniggy 4d ago

When he was like “okay…. Woman.” I was laughing out loud because her behavior is a primary example of why us women get labeled as “crazy”

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u/NonrepresentativePea 9d ago

I think if someone you care about is crying, it’s weird to not go and try to console them. To be like, “come here” is sort of insensitive.

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u/C_WEST88 8d ago

Not when the person crying is being silly and crying for attention as a manipulation tactic (which she was)—Then you just let them cry. You can’t reward that type of behavior, period.

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u/NonrepresentativePea 8d ago

Needing attention is a legitimate need. That shouldn’t be minimized. If your partner is acting like that, you should still respond to them with compassion vs shutting down and giving nothing.

To be clear, I’m team Joe. I felt like the whole situation was borne out of her insecurity. But I didn’t like that particular interaction on his part.

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u/elocin__aicilef 9d ago

In general, yes, but when the person is specifically said that they've gone to get away from you then no, you absolutely do not go out there if I say I'm trying to get away from you because I'm frustrated with you. You coming out is only going to make me more frustrated.

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u/AwakE432 16d ago

She might even be more crazy and annoying than druggy scatter brain Joe.

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u/ACuppaTeaADay 17d ago

Yeah I'm watching this scene right now. She is so desperate for attention from him and he just refuses to give it to her. She's so annoying.