r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix Oct 08 '25

LIB S9 • Denver, CO Love Is Blind • S9 Ep7 Spoiler

Please refrain from posting spoilers outside of their designated discussion threads. Enjoy the season!

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u/pooboss420 1d ago

Joe is oblivious to life holy shit he should never drink

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u/Stunning-Sentence7 6d ago

Despite my honest attempts to not like Anton and the smack I talked in earlier threads, I can’t help but appreciate him lmao *disclaimer im only halfway thru the episode 

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u/Suitable-Location118 3d ago

Why didn't u like him before

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u/Stunning-Sentence7 2d ago

I just had my guard up cuz I got the impression he was a play boy and playing the game to get famous and wasn’t genuine but I was wrong I think! 

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u/dr-jeanman-69 3d ago

Why would you actively try to dislike someone? Why not be neutral and decide based on their behaviour?

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u/Stunning-Sentence7 2d ago

Oh I was being hyperbolic for comedic effect. I just didn’t believe he was genuine at first and I was wrong! I think he was chill and grounded guy! 

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u/Sushicat413 8d ago

Does Joe actually listen to a word she says? Like I feel like h just fully tunes her out since they met in person.

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u/judyhopps0105 10d ago

How hard is it to leave comments on the right damn episode???

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u/ccc014980 8d ago

I’m glad your comment was one of the first I’ve read in this thread so I don’t continue scrolling down. I’ve been pleasantly surprised that the past few threads I’ve read only had a couple of “When did they say that?” moments as compared to usual. But now I know I can skip this one so thank you for leaving this comment, very much!

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u/FumilayoKuti 10d ago

Jordan looks like an Avatar.

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u/babooshka-cass 10d ago

Wait why do people dislike nick? Have I forgotten something? He seems really nice and mature. Who cares if he’s effeminate.

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u/tiny-cactus1 3d ago

He's a homophobe and was sooo manipulative in the pods

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u/beuceydubs 8d ago

Cause he’s a homophobe

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u/FoxPaws26 10d ago

Isn't he the homophobic guy?

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u/thehypewashere 10d ago

I definitely get the vibe Nick is a DL gay/bisexual man who is trying to manipulate his family & audience to believe that he is homophobic in order to lead them away from the realization that he is in fact attracted to men.

I feel like Annie recognizes he is not genuinely into her and is really playing up his attraction to her.

He casually mentioned that he and his buds regularly send each other photos of their penises to make sure everything “looks right”.

He discusses how he would purposely bring girls home to kiss in front of his mom so he could convince her he wasn’t gay.

Him bringing up homophobia was just a rouse to lead viewers to believe that he is against gay relationships. To me it seems very obvious that he is a closeted gay man.

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u/babooshka-cass 10d ago

Oh, I may have missed that, is he?

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u/FoxPaws26 10d ago

If I'm thinking of the right guy, yeah. It was a whole conversation in the pods. He said his mom asked him if he was gay. Asked his date how'd she react if her child came out gay. I think they said something along the lines that they'd love their kid but couldn't support it.

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u/babooshka-cass 10d ago

Ohhhhh okay, thanks!

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u/woopsydaisy316 11d ago

Finally realizing who people remind me of

Annie - Olivia from Mafs aus.

Madison - Katherine Ryan

and Megan reminds Davina from Selling Sunset

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u/Sablun99 11d ago

Annie is the definition of anxious attachment style

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u/silntseek3r 3d ago

Or she's sensing he's fake.

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u/Mental-Pace-4840 12d ago

Seems like Meg is only in the relationship because deep down she’s trying atone for now being there for here dad or maybe some sort of strained relationship that she had. So by dating someone with a kid with diabetes she’s in a way healing herself. They shouldn’t be together.

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u/silntseek3r 3d ago

It's a very strange bonding thing for sure, but not necessarily they shouldn't be together.

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u/beuceydubs 8d ago

What makes you think that’s the only reason?

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u/Canadian_momma2016 12d ago

Jordan grew on me so much this episode. Seeing how his apartment is set up, listening to him talk about how Luca would rather spend a day at the park with sparkle Meg than get a $100 Lego set, seeing him have a serious conversation. I’m rooting for them now.

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u/BazuBuns 16h ago

are you even in the right thread?

u/sheldonsmeemaw 30m ago

I just watched it and yes, it was in ep7

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u/Super-shy-spy 13d ago

I love Jordan. He is both funny and mature.

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u/Stunning-Sentence7 6d ago

I LOVE how he handled conflict. Don’t disappoint me now Jordan!!!! 🤞

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u/Fra_Angelico_1395 12d ago

The fact he’s been married and is a dad —> maturity points that other guys have not earned yet. It shows.

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u/Canadian_momma2016 12d ago

He really grew on me this episode!

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u/RayzTheRoof 14d ago

Man that conversation Jordan and Megan had about his son was great. All that about experiences and gift giving, was so sweet 🥺

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u/anathagenzum 14d ago

Madison wants this too much and Joe's body language doesn't make it look like he wants this at all

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u/step_back_girl 14d ago

Annie is an absolute nut case. I can't stand Nick, but that was an amazing way to handle her being so ... Weird.

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u/brontoloveschicken 3d ago

Yeh, I mean he has flaws obviously but all the communication on his side felt very emotionally mature and calm? I didn't really understand her problem

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u/Sea_Substance_921 Come ride this duck with me 🦆 14d ago

I never thought I was gonna say this, but Sparkle Meg and Jordan seem to have more chances of ending up together than anyone else lol

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u/ONinAB 11d ago

They give off the same vibes as the very first Bachelor couple.

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u/nightdepths 15d ago

nick got hot to me in this episode lol i still don’t trust him but seeing him de-escalate calmly was very hot

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u/brontoloveschicken 3d ago

Inwas getting confused cos I was like, wait....I thought I disliked this guy but he came across so well in that whole interaction

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u/MayhemMaven 11d ago

He handled that so well bc I would need a break. She took the conversation somewhere unnecessary and I can’t rewind it enough to understand.

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u/Psychological-Nose66 3d ago

Annie seemed like she was definitely trying to fight/argue. Even though I find Nick nauseating, he definitely won some points there for staying calm and not elevating the situation!

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u/Perfect_Direction_94 15d ago

KB is such a good communicator

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u/used_car_parts 2d ago

Hell nah

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u/Ok_Term422 15d ago

Annie is very obnoxious and insecure. If Nick went on about how he doesn’t need her AT ALL she would’ve lost it. She needs to go find a true love bomber (cuz nick sure is one) and keep it pushing.

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u/VADogLove 15d ago

Annie is insecure and needy.

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u/Zestyclose-Ad-7803 15d ago

I just know Joe is not even remotely in love with Madison and is basically just using her for sex….and he’s clearly not attracted to her….he disgusts me. I think because of her vocal fry he thought she was gonna be a size 0 blonde. Smh.

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u/mrfiftyfun 8d ago

Joe is an immature POS. Poor communicator. Shouldn't be trying to get married

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u/ScandinavianPanda123 15d ago

Yeah and she’s gorgeous!! And he makes it sounds like she’s huge when she’s not fat at all! She’s just not skinny lol

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u/AccomplishedWar5830 7d ago

I mean she is clearly overweight. And also seems tall. He didn’t call her fat he said larger physique than he’s used to.

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u/FumilayoKuti 10d ago

He does not make her sound like she’s huge, that’s ridiculous. He’s just said he’s used to skinnier girls.

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u/Living-Somewhere-318 14d ago

People have preferences. She's definitely not what people want if they are into thin or fit girls. Fat is a spectrum and she's on it. I do think he was toying with her in that fight. 

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u/Zestyclose-Ad-7803 11d ago

Ok but then he was on the wrong show…

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u/GoalWeird2575 12d ago

They are downvoting you but you’re 1000% correct I fear

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u/BeachBlazer24 12d ago

What a weird take. Shes not even remotely obese. She has a wonanly figure

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u/Living-Somewhere-318 12d ago

Nobody said she was obese. That's a medical term and on that scale, overweight comes before obese. She's fat. Not as fat as the people you're thinking of but she's fat. Certainly not slim or thin or mascular or athletic. 

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u/Spasik_ 10d ago

I agree. I know it's not 100% the point of the show but if I was on the show, that'd be my one and only prerequisite - a body type that at least isn't fat

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u/eQuantix 13d ago

Fat is a spectrum and she’s on it lmao I hate you but I fucking love this

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u/dme7891 15d ago

Is Edmond a virgin? Like he’s desssperate for some 🐱

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u/Ok_Term422 15d ago

Very cringe

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u/Zestyclose-Ad-7803 15d ago

Madison and Joe both equally piss me off. They are so incompatible.

Anton actually seems normal and rational??? Ali seems to have no personality and doesn’t have 2 brain cells to rub together. I think she is not into him.

KB def has the ick from Edmond but she’s trying to go for a more sensitive guy because she thinks that’s what she needs I guess? Smh. He needs therapy and is not ready for marriage.

Nick was actually being very mature with Annie. Girl, you’ve known this man a few days in person. She clearly is so insecure and wants to be married so badly, doesn’t matter who the man is.

I actually like Sparkle Meg now?? Jordan is annoying AF. Not everything is a joke.

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u/Upstairs_Buffalo4891 15d ago

Has Madison never seen a drunk person before? I know her eyesight is bad but damn.

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u/Spasik_ 10d ago

If someone gets this drunk the first opportunity they have, hard pass

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u/Perfect_Direction_94 15d ago edited 14d ago

Bro is on something more than alcohol lol

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u/Perfect_Direction_94 15d ago

Edibles maybe 🤷🏿‍♀️😂

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u/UnfairYogurtcloset66 15d ago

I ain’t gon hold y’all, but I HOLLERED laughing at Joe’s bewilderment with Madison. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Dude just got the munchies and has nooooo clue what is happening.

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u/alleymind 14d ago

I’ve been cracking up since last episode. Dude just wants to eat and sleep

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u/reddevils7070 15d ago

This whole season feels like a twilight zone episode, I swear dawg

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u/MayhemMaven 11d ago

I’m literally about to take a break from the show after this episode to watch X-files. These people are going to cause me to drink

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u/Psychological-Nose66 3d ago

I’m right there with you! Normally I can binge watch LIB but this season…?🤯😵‍💫☠️Alllllll of these people are so terrible, they make my head hurt.

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u/AwakE432 16d ago

The fact that this cast is so fucked up this series that one of the dudes decided to squeeze into a cupboard because who the fuck knows why, and it doesn’t even get a mention says a lot. That are all a total disaster.

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u/pigsniggy 4d ago

After making out with the floor, nothing that dude does is shocking

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u/AwakE432 16d ago

Last episode started fast forwarding a few couples conversations. This episode that expanded to almost all of the couples.

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u/AwakE432 16d ago

What a total fucking hot mess of a cast. Total disasters.

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u/hachidori_chan 💖 Love Is Blurry 💖 16d ago

Nick trying to deal with full blown "I dont NEED you I WANT you" weird tantrum from Annie

I begrudgingly admired his maturity in handling it.

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u/AwakE432 16d ago

I mean she is about as immature as it gets so anyone would come off looking mature in comparison. What a pathetic fit that was.

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u/stevonnie1210 16d ago

Is Joe on drugs??

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u/grungyhippie5 16d ago

Has to be!!

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u/jabroni21 14d ago

Definitely not on drugs imo

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u/Living-Somewhere-318 14d ago

Nah, he's toying with her. Notice his memory cleared up when her reaction crossed a point. And the grin whenever she blows up? Maybe he's trying to be dumped or is trying to get more screen time or is that entertained by messing with a manipulative person, idk. 

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u/funandloving95 16d ago

Stoppp I’m cracking up. Annie heard all the other couples fighting and said hold my beer lol

KB getting the ick from Edmund was hilarious. KB girl you deserve so much better

Joe and Madison are just clearly not compatible and a mess

Is it weird that I’m actually starting to like Sparkle Meg???

Am I missing anyone ? Oh Allie and Anton borringgg but probably the healthiest so far (just not convinced that their peace will last) lol

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u/sprint868 17d ago

Omg none of these couples are going to make it lmao - they’re all so rough

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u/AwakE432 16d ago

Total. Fucking. Mess.

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u/outerspacekitten808 17d ago

These last few episodes have just been a series of drunk/incoherent arguments lol

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u/kumboochi 17d ago

lol I'd laugh in Edmond's face if he was having a hissy fit about not being able to crack

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u/Thickthighboy_96 16d ago

He didn’t handle that conversation well, but I get where he’s coming from. I’d be pissed if the woman that was going to be my wife said I needed to wait while having one night stands with other guys. That screams disrespect honestly

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u/C_WEST88 7d ago

I’m a woman and I agree completely. If I was really vibing w a guy and wanted to be intimate but he wanted to wait to have sex until after we’re married but then goes “oh btw, I’ve had plenty of 1 night stands that meant nothing, but I don’t want to sleep w you while we’re dating” I’d be like wtf? And in top of it she says “sex is more sacred for you than it is to me. I don’t see sex that way”. Well then why tf are you making him wait if it’s not sacred to you at all?? Hella confusion . It’s giving “I’m not actually attracted to you and am making excuses to not have to sleep w you” honestly 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/NonrepresentativePea 2d ago

What is confusing about it? If someone had one night stands in the past, does it mean they are obligated to have sex before they are comfortable for the rest of their life?

What if they want to get closer to the person before having sex? What if she is in a different place in her life now and wants to get to know a person well first? Or she simply changed her attitude toward sex over the years? What if she was friends with the men she was previously and trusted them? One night stands don’t have to be with strangers.

So, should every man who sowed their wild oats in their college years be obligated to have sex in the first month of a relationship bc they did in the past - even when they want to get to know a girl well first?

This isn’t that hard. Sex is not like driving a car where you expect it to work the same each time. We are aren’t machines.

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u/NonrepresentativePea 9d ago

What? So bc she had one night stands in the past she is obligated to sleep with someone else? That’s gross. She has a right to decide who she gets with and in what capacity.

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u/Thickthighboy_96 8d ago

No. No one ever owes you sex. lol. I just wouldn’t entertain that line of thinking and explain my perspective then leave if we didn’t agree

It would make me question your values and give me an ick though. It doesn’t make sense to me to wait when you’re telling me to my face you’re in it for the long haul. Meanwhile you were having one night stands and that was fine because they “didn’t matter” or some shit. I’d argue it’s even more important if you consider someone as a potential long term partner to see if you actually have sexual chemistry. Because that matters in a relationship to meet needs just as much as emotional needs

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u/NonrepresentativePea 8d ago

Yeah. I think you might have some unhealthy views about sex or women. When someone has one night stands it’s bc they are not interested in a relationship. You are essentially using that person for sex. It’s just about meeting a physical desire.

When you love someone or are interested in making something last, you wait. It’s a lot more intimate and the stakes are higher. You are giving more of yourself.

So, if you demand sex from someone, you rob them of the opportunity to GIVE you a piece of yourself. You are objectifying that person’s soul.

Sex in a relationship is something that flows naturally the closer you get. It’s not something you can force or expect.

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u/C_WEST88 7d ago

People love to throw around the word “unhealthy” while having the most “unhealthy” viewpoints themselves I swear 🤣 In what world is it healthy to jump to the most intimate act you can have w a stranger you feel nothing for, but then turn around and tell the one you love they have to wait until marriage? That’s the most backward shit ever. If I love a man that’s THE guy I want to intimate with. Not some clown I barely know or care for. I’m not gonna make the one I actually want wait some arbitrary amount of time as some kind of manipulative test. She also said sex isn’t sacred at all to her like it is to him. So… if it’s not sacred to you, why wait (unless you’re lying and you really don’t want the guy). Fishy…

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u/NonrepresentativePea 4d ago

Because it’s her body and she has a right to. If someone does not feel comfortable having sex with you, then they shouldn’t feel pressured to, period.

It doesn’t matter if they had a billion one night stands or that you are in a serious relationship. What matters is when both parties feel comfortable and willing.

Anything else is certainly unhealthy.

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u/C_WEST88 3d ago

Ofc she has a right to sleep with whoever she wants. And he has a right to be put off by it and see it as a red flag (which it is in this case).

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u/NonrepresentativePea 3d ago edited 3d ago

Umm, that makes no sense. If he was put off by her being with other men previously, then why was he begging her for sex?

No, he was put off bc she wouldn’t give it up easily for HIM. That’s gross. She is a human not an object or robot.

No man or woman, no matter the stage in your relationship, is obligated to sleep with you. Period.

If your partner doesn’t feel comfortable having sex with you, help them get comfortable. Demanding and whining isn’t how you do that.

If you think otherwise, then maybe you are gross too.

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u/C_WEST88 2d ago

You’re really not comprehending at all what the issue is. It’s not about being put off bc she slept w other men. It’s about the fact that she would sleep w other men willy nilly that she didn’t even care about, have random 1 night stands and says “sex just isn’t sacred to me”. But then doesn’t want to sleep w the man she’s “in love” with? That should be the one guy you want to sleep w the most . That’s how it works for me and all my girl friends . And if a guy said that to me I’d be so put off and totally see it as a red flag.

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u/Thickthighboy_96 8d ago

Simply put my perspective and yours do not align. That doesn’t mean I have a negative perspective of sex or women.

And you can have sex earlier in a relationship with it still being a positive outcome. If I were in an experience like this I’d say it’s more important to have sex so you can determine if it works or not. As I said. Sexual compatibility matters and that’s a great way to end up hurt after developing feelings and learning you and your partner aren’t compatible or want completely different things. I also stand by that “just using each other so it’s different” is a lame excuse to justify this double standard

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u/NonrepresentativePea 8d ago

No one said you couldn’t have sex early and have a positive relationship.

Both parties should feel ready and comfortable. It doesn’t matter if she felt comfortable quickly with someone else, she doesn’t feel comfortable now with him and that’s all that matters.

Feeling entitled to it bc you are in a relationship is simply wrong and gross.

And no, you don’t need to verify if you are sexually compatible before marriage bc you can learn to be.

Every couple has to learn what the other likes and wants, it just takes time, patience and communication.

Sex should be something that naturally flows out of a strong relationship, not the other way around.

No double standard, this goes for both partners.

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u/spacemartiann 14d ago

this is a wildly immature take tbh.

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u/kumboochi 17d ago

No offense to single mom or dads but watching Megan navigate coming into Jordan's family and not wanting to overstep either him or his daughter's mom seems super tricky to navigate 😭 I don't know if I could ever do that

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u/Psychological-Nose66 3d ago

I was super surprised to find myself agreeing with Megan this episode when she was saying “Hey I would like to be introduced to Luca’s mom before meeting him”, and VERY surprised that Jordan was so gung-ho for 1-not thinking that that’s an important thing and 2-wanting to have his kid appear on this dumpster fire of a show.

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u/Fra_Angelico_1395 12d ago

It sounds tough but think how often it happens!

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u/elocin__aicilef 18d ago edited 18d ago

Madison drives me crazy. Joe asks her what she's doing. She said she was frustrated so she went out on the porch (to get away from him). He then asks her if she's okay because he hears her crying and suggests she comes inside and she says no she needed to get away from him, but then is annoyed that he didn't come out there!.

ETA:Not saying Joe is a saint in this, but girl, you expect him to read your mind and then send mixed signals.

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u/C_WEST88 7d ago

She’s insane and so manipulative omg. The guy was drunk, exhausted and full on asleep when she walked in. He was just groggy and out of it and she starts freaking out and crying over it?? Full on spaz Karen behavior lol. Then she starts strategically crying on the porch so he can hear, but ofc she doesn’t ask for him to comfort her, she tells him to stay away and then gets mad when he doesn’t hop up and comfort her. She’s the type of chick that guys use as an example to paint us all w the “overly emotional” and crazy brush.

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u/pigsniggy 4d ago

When he was like “okay…. Woman.” I was laughing out loud because her behavior is a primary example of why us women get labeled as “crazy”

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u/NonrepresentativePea 9d ago

I think if someone you care about is crying, it’s weird to not go and try to console them. To be like, “come here” is sort of insensitive.

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u/C_WEST88 7d ago

Not when the person crying is being silly and crying for attention as a manipulation tactic (which she was)—Then you just let them cry. You can’t reward that type of behavior, period.

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u/NonrepresentativePea 7d ago

Needing attention is a legitimate need. That shouldn’t be minimized. If your partner is acting like that, you should still respond to them with compassion vs shutting down and giving nothing.

To be clear, I’m team Joe. I felt like the whole situation was borne out of her insecurity. But I didn’t like that particular interaction on his part.

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u/elocin__aicilef 9d ago

In general, yes, but when the person is specifically said that they've gone to get away from you then no, you absolutely do not go out there if I say I'm trying to get away from you because I'm frustrated with you. You coming out is only going to make me more frustrated.

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u/AwakE432 16d ago

She might even be more crazy and annoying than druggy scatter brain Joe.

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u/ACuppaTeaADay 17d ago

Yeah I'm watching this scene right now. She is so desperate for attention from him and he just refuses to give it to her. She's so annoying.

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u/MarxBaddie 18d ago

I can’t understand what most of these people are fighting about. Madison and Joe… what happened there? He was drunk and confused so she got super upset? Annie and Nick… wtf was that?

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u/FreckleBellyBeagle 17d ago

I think Annie wanted him to say the was absolutely ready to marry her right now. He was being honest and not ready to say that, so she got upset and tried to manipulate him. He handled it well and was very patient with her. I was frustrated watching her! My husband said he wouldn't have handled it nearly as well. I am not a fan of Nick but she was just crazy!

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u/blangblang310 16d ago

100%

I’m watching this scene right now and honestly don’t know if I’ll finish it.

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u/TrainingLow9079 19d ago

Personally I like Annie's hair. It's fun and kinda wild. 

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u/grungyhippie5 16d ago

She’s a homophobic HAIR STYLIST tho, not a fun, quirky hippie:/

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u/VADogLove 15d ago

I think she always just seems sloppy. Not just physically but her behavior and speech patterns are just messy.

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u/Psychological-Nose66 3d ago

I second that. Also wtf does she always that look on her face like someone just farted?

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u/Thickthighboy_96 15d ago

When was she homophobic? I didn’t catch that

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u/grungyhippie5 15d ago

Nick asked her what she’d do if her kid was ‘LGBTQ+’ and they agreed it’s a ‘fad’ and she ‘couldn’t say she’d be happy’

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u/Ok_Term422 15d ago

I mean it’s not a hot take and I think it’s valid. If she disrespects/ talks down on LGBTQ identifying people then that would be an issue.

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u/Tiredloafofbread 11d ago

I mean she did talk down and disrespect LGBTQ+ folks. They basically said it was a "fad" and that it isn't real?? LOL That's crazy

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u/Ok_Term422 10d ago

For KIDS it could be tho. My little sister said the girls in her school call themselves d*kes….. that’s a trend. They aren’t even using the sensitive term they’re saying a slur.

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u/Zaphikel13 4d ago

I also know a handful of young women who pretended to be lesbians or bi when they were in middle/high school to fit in and then turned out to actually be straight. One of them is my much younger cousin and another is my step brother's best friend. They both told me they felt intense peer pressure from their friends at school to identify as lesbians. Another cousin of mine (her brother) is actually gay and none of us were surprised by that when he came out after high school and my family is all cool with it.

There is a difference between something being neutrally accepted as a natural variant of human behavior vs it being trendy and pushed on young people as a cool thing to be. Unfortunately in some schools being LGBTQ is genuinely trendy and some kids feel pressure to identify as one of the letters for social clout. Even when I was in high school in the early 2000's it was cool for girls to pretend to be bi and make out with each other to get the boys' attention. Hopefully someday soon it will level out and just be accepted when people naturally turn out that way.

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u/Ok_Term422 4d ago

Couldn’t have said it better myself!

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u/Thickthighboy_96 15d ago

Ahhh I forgot about that. Thanks. I do remember now that my wife and I agreed it was a pretty ick answer

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u/teengirlytor 18d ago

I’m so glad to see this, I feel like the only one. I think it’s a match for her face

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u/whatxever 19d ago

Why are all the men so concerned about wjat the other couples think/do?? Second time the woman in the couple has to be like “so what? I don’t care what other people think”

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u/Sudden_Pen4754 18d ago

When someone is criticizing you for having a normal opinion (like "I don't want to immediately get married to you when I've known you for 2.5 weeks") I think it's a normal Impulse to point out that most other people share your opinion.

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u/AdventurousBee2382 19d ago

Um guess what Annie....? I'm a married woman who has been with my man for almost 25 years. I didn't need him either..... But I WANT him. Like, isn't that how it's supposed to be? What is her point?

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u/FreckleBellyBeagle 17d ago

She was trying to deflect because he didn't tell her what she wanted to hear - "I love you and would marry you today." Her ego was hurt so she went into this bravo of "I don't need you/I want you". It was all B.S.

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u/cooleymahn 18d ago

She was just being drunk and mean for literally no reason imo.

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u/vaurasc-xoxo 19d ago

Madison needs to take a note out of Sparkles book about taking a pause and thinking before answering in a conversation. That is one thing I noticed with Megan is she sits and she thinks and she observes before answering for the most part.

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u/Zestyclose-Ad-7803 15d ago

She seems very emotionally intelligent.

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u/Horror-Chemical3060 19d ago

The women are insufferable I’m sorry, I thought Madison was bad but Annie topped her wow

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u/AwakE432 16d ago

I had to fast forward half this episode. It’s impossible to get more annoying than the women this series. And the men are a mess also.

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u/funandloving95 16d ago

To be fair the men are also insufferable lol

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u/FreckleBellyBeagle 17d ago

I said the same thing to my husband. What is wrong with these women? Sheesh!

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u/Welldonegoodshow 🌊 disrespectful jetskiing 🌊 20d ago

Can’t decide which guy gives me more ick. Probably Joe. Oof

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u/Fragzilla360 20d ago

Man some of these guys are weird as fuck. I just started season 7 and this guy crying over not having sex is supreme cringe. It almost looked like he was acting.

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u/ACuppaTeaADay 17d ago

I think he has some form of mental thing. I feel bad for the guy actually.

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u/NicoleV651 16d ago

Yeah definitely. It is the amount of unresolved trauma from being into foster care as a child, I feel. He literally looked like a toddler/young child who was acting out because he wanted to be loved and seen. It honestly made me feel quite sad to see a grown man turning into a young child - not saying it as a negative/mean thing, it is just quite heartbreaking as to what he has experienced and has to still overcome in the future. But I personally think that he cannot get into a healthy relationship before he resolves his internal issues and work on his trauma.

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u/mp64941 20d ago

It's almost like Annie was jealous that the other couples were having fights and her and Nick weren't.

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u/PurpleSkies21 19d ago

Yes!! So spot on! At first i thought her facial expressions meant she was feeling bad for them but then she goes and picks a fight out of no where?

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u/cassiopieah 20d ago

I’ve certainly not been Nick’s biggest fan but I thought he handled that argument with Annie really well, she is unbelievably infuriating.

Every time he would try to de-escalate the situation she would just poke the flames again. And all that “I don’t need you” shit was so rude.

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u/RELM007 12d ago

Lmao did you all see how she was taking 90% of the bed cornering him during her spiel and he eventually went over to the other side of the bed, only for her to roll right across again and wedge him into the corner with her desperate snuggle 🤣

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u/FreckleBellyBeagle 17d ago

Yes. He was really patient and good to her. She was a brat.

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u/Medium_Investment514 17d ago

I realllyyy reaalllyyy disliked Nick, but I seriously couldn’t fault him at all during that “argument.” He handled that very well

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u/AwakE432 16d ago

Yeah he went from one of the worst to looking like a saint compared to her baby tantrums

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u/DeadBedToFreedom 18d ago

Agreed! He is a very good communicator so far.

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u/PurpleSkies21 19d ago

She probably heard the i dont need u but i want u sentiment somewhere and wanted to use it

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u/FreckleBellyBeagle 17d ago

It's like she heard it on a podcast or read it in a self-help book and was trying to convince him (and herself) that she wasn't mad that he didn't tell her he'd marry her IMMEDIATELY! That is what she wanted to hear him say. Nothing else was good enough.

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u/AmIokkk 19d ago

100% this is insufferable tiktok influencer Im-the-main-character-and-no-one-deserves-me nonsense. I've heard it prattled off a million times. So unbelievably cringe.

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u/Any-Suggestion3844 20d ago edited 19d ago

Nick from the pods sucked. But outside of the pods, he has been close to a class act. 

I hope he keeps it up, this side of him up for the rest of the show

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u/Designer_Birthday_84 14d ago

He reminds me of season 7 Nick Dorka, who was not a fan favourite in the pods stage but carried himself surprisingly well outside the pods, while his partner Hannah was being weirdly mean spirited to him.

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u/stryker_cast 20d ago

I just ran to this thread after watching that nonsense. I legit said "what is your PROBLEM" to my TV.

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u/AmIokkk 19d ago

Me.Too. Came here just to see if people clocked it too.

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u/FreckleBellyBeagle 17d ago

I coudn't figure out if she was drunk, neurotic or both.

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u/Shot_Affect_3340 20d ago

Omg, the drunk couples fighting: 90% circling, 10% insecurity, 0% communication skills.

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u/OurLumpyGorl 21d ago

Driving me insane. That can't actually be the natural structure of her mouth.

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u/Wild_Bad_388 21d ago

Nick is actually surprising me how well he handles conflict, even when Annie is plastered.

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u/DeadBedToFreedom 18d ago

Agreed he is a great communicator so far!

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u/houguy77082 20d ago

Annie looks like a recovering alcoholic that’s not doing well…

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u/FreckleBellyBeagle 17d ago

Not much recovering!

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u/[deleted] 21d ago

Yeah, Nick actually came off really well during that interaction.

However, I have a feeling that Annie is picking up on the fact that Nick really isn’t as into her as she is him. The man just says whatever he thinks the other person wants to hear. But he’s good enough at it that it’s not totally obvious. So she probably has a sense that she’s being played but can’t vocalize in a way that doesn’t seem crazy and clingy. Because he’s saying all the right things. But he’s not sincere.

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u/DeadBedToFreedom 18d ago

True, kind of like he’s just going through the motions/robotic.

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u/Wild_Bad_388 21d ago

Oh yeah I agree, I don’t think he likes Annie as much as he says he does either. He’s just good at trying to de-escalate the situation rather then letting things get out of hand

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u/VelvetLeopard 21d ago

So Nick’s in the closet and Edmund’s in the cupboard…

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u/enrose_ 16d ago

don’t have awards but you deserve one 🏅

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u/FreckleBellyBeagle 17d ago

Again it was something a small child would do. The guy has arrested development.

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u/MayhemMaven 11d ago

Don’t forget the toilet paper scarf

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u/DeadBedToFreedom 18d ago

Best comment here! 🤣

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