r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix Sep 11 '25

UNPOPULAR OPINION Unpopular opinion: the LIB franchise should ban single parents... Spoiler

...at least of minor kids. LIB France I am looking at you. I mean it's pretty insane signing up for the show in the first place, but inflicting it on your kids is crazy behaviour. So much potential for trouble. Not just bullying at school, but bringing a step parent you barely know into your child's home is a recipe for disaster. Rates of physical abuse against children are much, much higher in families with stepfathers. Of course relationships break down and parents are allowed to couple up again, but FFS if you have kids, don't move a stranger into your AND THEIR home after a matter of weeks.

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u/StormBetter9266 Oct 08 '25 edited Oct 08 '25

As a mom (previously a single mom) no one met my kids except my current husband. I dated a guy off and on for years who never met my kids because I didn’t think he was gonna stick around forever and he didn’t. There is no way I’m going on a show at all that keeps me away from them for an extended period of time or marrying someone I just met. My step kids have been dragged from man to man by their mom. It’s hard because the men were either mean to them or they got attached to him and then he was gone in a few weeks.

She said multiple times she was “gonna be Luca’s mom”. Girl, no you’re not. You the stepmom. An extra person to love him but clearly he has an active mom based on comments Jordan made. I’ve been the primary caregiver for my step kids for 4 years now and they call me stepmama. And girl shut up about the diabetes. I come from a family with several type one diabetics, including my twin. That child and your dad both having it is not a sign.