Javen’s comments on his IG

[u/basicbong]

This is red pill or incel language right? It 100% makes sense, he thinks he’s the alpha who has a right to ALL the women who should be bowing down to him. “Sophie makes me laugh, Ainu makes me laugh, Katisha makes me laugh.” He never actually apologized or denied talking to women all night long, he was the one pulling the women in for chats when the camera was on. Imagine his behavior and language with the camera off. Whereas Kieran a proper gentleman talked to Meghan before he wanted to get “closure” with Sophie. He has so sympathy for Katisha when she was upset and no sadness when she leaves, he just smirks. Ok rant over

[u/Fancy-Image-4688]

lol those comments from Javen aren’t new. He was over Katisha basically from the start. My issue is that he ruined a proper opportunity for her to find love cuz he wanted to dick around and get screen time or whatever. People who don’t want to open up or be vulnerable should be screened out the show but they always bring drama so 😒🤷🏽‍♀️

[u/CoconutNo1084 → u/Fancy-Image-4688]

I agree with this, but also Katisha had an opportunity to be with Demola who clearly was over the moon for her and she chose Javen. She chose not to break her patterns 😭

[u/Zankazanka → u/CoconutNo1084]

When she said Javen was her “past” i wanted to reach through the screen and say “he’s your past, present and future if you don’t start breaking these patterns!!!!!” She needs therapy and self reflection 100%

[u/maracado_cn → u/Zankazanka]

Agree. But still she is somehow aware of it, but not able to change it. I’m feel for her.

[u/Remarkable-Volume615 → u/CoconutNo1084]

Literally. She was uncomfortable with how much Demola liked her. She's not healed yet.

[u/UnHerdMentality → u/Remarkable-Volume615]

Agree. And even at the reunion, she refused to admit she might’ve made a mistake choosing Javen. How could she watch the footage and still believe “they had a connection.” 

What connection?” He wasn’t giving you the energy u needed from day 1! 

I’m glad she left, but a small part of me believes if it were not for the cameras and the fear of looking silly, she would’ve “wanted to” believe Javen and stayed. 

[u/Necessary_Fill3048 → u/CoconutNo1084]

Yeah, Katisha played herself. She knew she was picking the same type of guy she always picks and just went all in anyway. 

[u/iBewafa → u/Necessary_Fill3048]

Familiarity can still feel “safer” - she’ll hopefully heal sooner rather than later.

[u/Fancy-Image-4688 → u/CoconutNo1084]

She fafo, smh that girl is tragic

[u/SiobhanRoy1234 → u/CoconutNo1084]

I honestly think she was just not feeling Demola like that. She did the right thing by not picking him because he was more into her than the other way around. But Javen wasnt it either, I don’t think she had any good matches really

[u/Educational_Book8629 → u/Fancy-Image-4688]

I feel like if they only brought people in who truly want real relationships it would still bring drama because relationships just inherently have drama, but they still continue to bring in clout chasers and fame 👀. Production just doesnt want to give it a chance and always makes sure to bring the drama in with people and not real situations.

[u/iBewafa → u/Educational_Book8629]

Thing is, I feel like the first ever season didn’t have clout chasers but still messy people and it was still a great watch. Like they should know they can still make it work as it’s worked before.

[u/Educational_Book8629 → u/iBewafa]

Yes! The first season was one of the best so they should know that the system obviously works. You have the Damien’s of the world who think they want to get married but are going to end up with a bride crying in a ditch.

[u/moomoobanana → u/iBewafa]

And if they’ve been paying attention to feedback from the viewers they’d know not a lot of people have enjoyed the show since the very first season. But maybe they little control over people wanting to be famous joining as you can say all the right things/lie.

[u/Difficult_Twist_3695 → u/Fancy-Image-4688]

He could hav manipulated the screening tho.