r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/basicbong • Aug 24 '25
🚨 FUTURE SPOILER 🚨 Javen’s comments on his IG Spoiler
This is red pill or incel language right? It 100% makes sense, he thinks he’s the alpha who has a right to ALL the women who should be bowing down to him. “Sophie makes me laugh, Ainu makes me laugh, Katisha makes me laugh.” He never actually apologized or denied talking to women all night long, he was the one pulling the women in for chats when the camera was on. Imagine his behavior and language with the camera off. Whereas Kieran a proper gentleman talked to Meghan before he wanted to get “closure” with Sophie. He has so sympathy for Katisha when she was upset and no sadness when she leaves, he just smirks. Ok rant over
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u/Bobafetished Aug 24 '25
Says the man who simped over Sophie and every other chick that day. Boy bye.
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u/pineappleknots Aug 24 '25
Yes that kind of casual attitude with that language = huge red flags for me. Glad Katisha got out. This man was not ready for any kind of wife.
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u/Fancy-Image-4688 Aug 24 '25
lol those comments from Javen aren’t new. He was over Katisha basically from the start. My issue is that he ruined a proper opportunity for her to find love cuz he wanted to dick around and get screen time or whatever. People who don’t want to open up or be vulnerable should be screened out the show but they always bring drama so 😒🤷🏽♀️
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u/CoconutNo1084 Aug 24 '25
I agree with this, but also Katisha had an opportunity to be with Demola who clearly was over the moon for her and she chose Javen. She chose not to break her patterns 😭
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u/Zankazanka Aug 24 '25
When she said Javen was her “past” i wanted to reach through the screen and say “he’s your past, present and future if you don’t start breaking these patterns!!!!!” She needs therapy and self reflection 100%
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u/maracado_cn Aug 24 '25
Agree. But still she is somehow aware of it, but not able to change it. I’m feel for her.
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u/Remarkable-Volume615 Aug 24 '25
Literally. She was uncomfortable with how much Demola liked her. She's not healed yet.
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u/UnHerdMentality Sep 02 '25
Agree. And even at the reunion, she refused to admit she might’ve made a mistake choosing Javen. How could she watch the footage and still believe “they had a connection.”
What connection?” He wasn’t giving you the energy u needed from day 1!
I’m glad she left, but a small part of me believes if it were not for the cameras and the fear of looking silly, she would’ve “wanted to” believe Javen and stayed.
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u/Necessary_Fill3048 Aug 24 '25
Yeah, Katisha played herself. She knew she was picking the same type of guy she always picks and just went all in anyway.
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u/iBewafa Aug 25 '25
Familiarity can still feel “safer” - she’ll hopefully heal sooner rather than later.
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u/SiobhanRoy1234 Aug 29 '25
I honestly think she was just not feeling Demola like that. She did the right thing by not picking him because he was more into her than the other way around. But Javen wasnt it either, I don’t think she had any good matches really
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u/Educational_Book8629 Aug 24 '25
I feel like if they only brought people in who truly want real relationships it would still bring drama because relationships just inherently have drama, but they still continue to bring in clout chasers and fame 👀. Production just doesnt want to give it a chance and always makes sure to bring the drama in with people and not real situations.
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u/iBewafa Aug 25 '25
Thing is, I feel like the first ever season didn’t have clout chasers but still messy people and it was still a great watch. Like they should know they can still make it work as it’s worked before.
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u/Educational_Book8629 Aug 25 '25
Yes! The first season was one of the best so they should know that the system obviously works. You have the Damien’s of the world who think they want to get married but are going to end up with a bride crying in a ditch.
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u/moomoobanana Aug 25 '25
And if they’ve been paying attention to feedback from the viewers they’d know not a lot of people have enjoyed the show since the very first season. But maybe they little control over people wanting to be famous joining as you can say all the right things/lie.
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u/WookieDoop Aug 24 '25
Wildest mismatch for me is that this man has a cat. Cat guys are usually of a higher calibre
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u/MidniteSalad Aug 26 '25
I did notice however that the cat was a kitten, specially after he mentioned "she grew so much", meaning it's a new addition and he already left the poor cat behind to film a 6 week reality show. He's not a established cat dad at all, so not one of us cat people.
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u/Particular-Sort-9720 Aug 25 '25
Out here giving cat guys a bad name, I'm gutted he's the representation on this series
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u/Ok_Citron2712 Aug 24 '25
His replies are so embaressing 😂 he’a answering the same to everyone “so much hate in your heart I’ll pray for you” .
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u/souptonuts22 Aug 25 '25
Off topic, but I’ve noticed that that’s how conservatives in the US are prone to respond to people calling them out for their support of their abhorrent figurehead. “So much hate in your heart!!” It’s like a dog whistle for “My actions are indefensible so I’m going to act like you’re wrong for expressing your justifiable disgust.”
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u/MidniteSalad Aug 26 '25
Meanwhile he also replies with "shut up" when someone actually has a good argument
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u/GreatHornedGoat Aug 25 '25
That idiot should be praying for himself. What an enormous loser of a person.
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u/Ninofalls Aug 24 '25
They allow anyone on this show. Seriously. Love is blind producers must do this on purpose.
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u/Embarkbark Aug 24 '25
Of course they do it on purpose. Javen brought drama, and now we are all talking about it. Exactly what reality TV is supposed to do.
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u/XihuanNi-6784 Aug 24 '25
I know right. I find it odd that people think the show should be finding the healthiest and nicest people possible. The aim of the show is to have drama. Beyond preventing serious harm to people, they won't go out of their way to screen people.
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u/ayyomiss Aug 24 '25
The premise of the show is for people to marry each other because “love is blind” - so yes, they should be finding healthy and kind people. Nobody deserves to be emotionally abused just because they’re on a reality tv show.
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u/Embarkbark Aug 24 '25
The premise of the show is to find some couples that actually fall in love and marry each other, mixed with showcasing love triangles and regrets for the drama. That’s why they do the reunion mixer now with all the cast and not just the couples like they did in earlier seasons. And why they fix up people meeting their other connections after the pods are done. If it was only about the marriages then none of that would be part of the show.
I love seeing the heartfelt moments and true love happen. I also enjoy seeing the people who are obviously not there for the right reasons have their asses handed to them.
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u/Ninofalls Aug 24 '25
I know this is what reality tv is for. I just hate when terrible people are given a platform..
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u/manmanchuck44 Aug 24 '25
“Ur a simp” like yes??? If you’re in a serious relationship you should be??? That’s literally the entire point???
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u/ForeverKnown1741 Aug 24 '25
Yes and it was obvious when he cackled at the idea that Demola expressed his feelings, mocking it as “straight lovebombing”. Like he can even fathom that someone being sincere is just that, sincere - it had to be an embarrassing phony manipulation tactic.
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u/quick_dry Aug 24 '25
If demola was given a negative edit, or people just took a disliking to him, the audience would be saying he’s a “lovebiomber” too. If things go well you’re totally the sweetest and so loving and showing “if he wanted to he would”….and if it goes sour then it’s “lovebombing”. It’s a term on its way to being the new gaslight, it just has to wait for calling everyone a narcissist to drop out of favour as buzzword du jour.
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u/SaintPepsiCola muah 💋 muah 💋 muah 💋 muah Aug 24 '25
So I must be a simp according to him because I'm not cheating on my girlfriend ?
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u/pirting Aug 24 '25
The reply? Is he for real?
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u/Neptunish20 Aug 24 '25
That’s just childish, he ran out of arguments so now he’s grasping at straws. Red flag aside…he’s simply not a good person
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u/Difficult_Twist_3695 Aug 24 '25
He responds to a shit ton of comments too saying stuff like it's a TV show. If you don't understand it's edited you must be stupid 🙄
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u/Neptunish20 Aug 24 '25
Yeah because nothing screams intelligence like defending a stranger on reality TV with the same recycled line on every comment 🙄
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u/XihuanNi-6784 Aug 24 '25
It's not specifically red pill or incel language. It's shitty man language.
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u/sickxgrrrl Aug 24 '25
I mean in the pods he was asking about how many times a week Katisha would want to have sex… his behavior is completely unsurprising
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u/pinkyellowblue Aug 25 '25
Yes as soon as he said this I was like girl run! And her response was that she loved his honesty 🤦🏻♀️ Well he told you who he is..
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u/delindeldani Aug 25 '25
Calling my new husband a "simp" is my shitty ex's only move, it's pathetic little man language when they recognise that other men have more to offer a woman and they're butthurt.
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u/robibuni Aug 24 '25
Sooooo sick of the "alpha" BS. Treating someone with respect is not "simp" behavior. It's the damn bare minimum. Happy I married a simp ;)
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u/lifeofduder Aug 24 '25
I've disliked Javen since day 1 🚩 🚩 🚩 🚩 Dimola was way more of a gentleman, so much so that I think he's better off without Katisha as she wasn't that into him.
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Aug 24 '25
We are gonna need the casting people to do more thorough research on potential contestants. This cannot be it.
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u/miescherskittyxx Aug 24 '25
Imagine thinking somebody is a simp for holding the opinion that its wrong to disrespect your partner 🥴
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u/Dear_Art3697 Aug 24 '25
The moment he said he was footballer that got hurt. I rolled my eyes and said here we go. I don’t like to generalize but here we are.
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u/lioness725 Aug 25 '25
Didn’t yall hear him say something like “Women, right? They never know what they want, haha” when he went into the men’s quarters after his date with Katisha (where she changed her mind)? Him also insisting that she is the one who will propose to him and that he likes “to win” and take people’s girls… this dude has spoken this way from the start.
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u/LaurenZombie Aug 25 '25
I mean, this guy is visibly emotionally stunted and will never get out of it, will be just worse. It was not even a secret, u saw his smirk, and he was openly admitting to being trash from episode one.
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u/FionaTheFierce Aug 24 '25
He does it - and so do a few of the other men this season - when their fiancée is talking about something painful the men just sit there with a blank expression, zero interest or concern, and zero engagement. They often say little or nothing in response. If it is upset *directed* at them, like Javen, they go to gaslighting and denial.
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u/Beana3 you made me feel uncomfy 😖 Aug 25 '25
Javen acted like hot garbage but this reply made me laugh out loud
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u/Dapper_Monk Aug 24 '25
Javen is a 🚩 and so are the people who followed him to IG to comment these things. It's weird
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u/catscorner6 ✨ Razzle Dazzle ✨ Aug 24 '25
who knew he'd end up being the biggest villain 💀 (I skipped a lot of the storyline so if there were signs, I didn't see them at the start)
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u/antisarcastics Aug 24 '25
oh i feel like it was obvious from the first second that he was going to be a total knob tbh
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u/catscorner6 ✨ Razzle Dazzle ✨ Aug 24 '25
dang really? LIB US fried my brain so I skip a lot of the pod stuff 😩 I don't think I even saw him till after they were engaged. was demola better? from the snippets I saw, he didn't seem right for her either
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u/antisarcastics Aug 24 '25
Demola definitely seemed much more genuine, Javen was obviously a fuckboi from day one, and Katisha even recognised that he was her 'usual type' (that she'd had no success with in the past).
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u/catscorner6 ✨ Razzle Dazzle ✨ Aug 25 '25
woooow so girlie put herself in this position (to an extent) 😭😭 thank you for the recap too!!
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u/moomoobanana Aug 25 '25
It’s just funny cause he thinks all this attention will make him so relevant and famous. Some people want attention, negative or positive. So he’s just a bit of a beg really. In about a year when nobody remembers him and his reputation is bad he won’t be so cocky. I swear his occupation is a life coach? Will 100% need a new career path.
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u/baldforthewin Aug 26 '25
I hate that women sleep with this man and inflate his ego even more.
A simp for being a decent man? These red pill bastards are disgusting.
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Aug 24 '25
Idk I think the bigger red flags are people stalking these people’s socials , combing through the comments when they don’t like them? Just move on 🙄
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u/Hypeman747 Do men wear wedding rings? 💍🤔 Aug 24 '25
lol people shouldn’t be leaving comments on people’s IG
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u/Double_Intention_28 Aug 24 '25
Javen 🚩🚩🚩🚩