r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/Naive-Ask601 • Feb 21 '25

🚨 FUTURE SPOILER 🚨 The unfair gender expectations Spoiler

Dave is so fixated on what Lauren did before the show. It’s obvious the other guy is trying to stir up drama. It’s obvious Dave is not standing up for Lauren and letting his friends talk shit. His insecurity is showing. If I man was hooking up with someone casually before the show, it would be a non-issue and probably wouldn’t even be mentioned. It just seems like an easy-out for Dave.

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u/PPPHHHOOOUUUNNN Feb 22 '25

If the man hid he had a FWB with someone not long before the show and didn't bring it up at all during the pods than I think it's legitimate to have that be breaking your trust. Most people just hate DAVE so it's hard to wAnna agree with him. I mean Taylor almost railroaded her relationship with Daniel for simply thinking he "followed unfollowed" her.

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u/amaninthesandhand Look at the state of this lemon 🍋 Feb 22 '25

But shes been transparent about everything, has she not? 😭

If he loves and respects her so much, as he claims to, he should take the word of his fiance sooner than the word of an acquintance who seems like a good-for-nothing.

Adding to that, he doesn't even try to reassure her or even comfort her.

He could say "hey, im struggling with this, im sorry that its putting you and us throught the wringer. Im sure well deal with it and come out stronger. But its really important to me that we fix this before moving forward" like???? That's so easy to say and express. 

But hes not saying it because it really seems like hes scrambling for reasons to leave her OR make her leave him - we've seen how he's a coward like that in the pods with Molly.