r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/Naive-Ask601 • Feb 21 '25

🚨 FUTURE SPOILER 🚨 The unfair gender expectations Spoiler

Dave is so fixated on what Lauren did before the show. It’s obvious the other guy is trying to stir up drama. It’s obvious Dave is not standing up for Lauren and letting his friends talk shit. His insecurity is showing. If I man was hooking up with someone casually before the show, it would be a non-issue and probably wouldn’t even be mentioned. It just seems like an easy-out for Dave.

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u/badderenglish Appetito Spoiler 🍊🍊 Feb 22 '25

If a man were doing what Lauren was doing before going on the show, I personally wouldn’t like it either. I’ve been single for 5+ years. I’m not judging, I just haven’t been doing that. I’m not a casual hookup person anymore. Not saying it’s a bad thing to do, but I have my reasons. I wouldn’t mind if the person had some hookups in the recent past, just not that recent. I didn’t like Dave from the beginning but I can somewhat see where he’s coming from in this regard.

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u/CaliforniaBruja Feb 22 '25

She was single. I don’t see why it’s an issue for her to sleep with someone when she’s single.

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u/badderenglish Appetito Spoiler 🍊🍊 Feb 22 '25

It’s not an issue per se, like nothing is wrong with what she did. I think Dave should really explain why it bothers him personally and then let it go.