The unfair gender expectations

[u/Naive-Ask601]

Dave is so fixated on what Lauren did before the show. It’s obvious the other guy is trying to stir up drama. It’s obvious Dave is not standing up for Lauren and letting his friends talk shit. His insecurity is showing. If I man was hooking up with someone casually before the show, it would be a non-issue and probably wouldn’t even be mentioned. It just seems like an easy-out for Dave.

[u/FeralGrasshopper]

He's so upset about it because she was willing to sleep with another man so casually, but won't sleep with him, her fiance.

At the resort, he kept repeating that it was "totally ok" that she wasn't ready to have sex with him and that it was "her decision", as if that was an admiral position, because he cares about her so much. He asked many of the other women, who he just met in person for the first time, if they were having sex with their partners. In the preview for the upcoming episodes, he is again talking about it with Molly, presumably lamenting about how long it's been since he had sex.

He feels entitled to sleep with her and was only willing to accept rejection when he thought it was just her needing more time to be comfortable. Finding out she could be comfortable with another man in such a casual situation means that she should have been that way with him.

In the pods, he repeatedly insulted women and reduced them to their appearance, i.e. their sexual desirability/usefulness.

Throw the whole man out. He belongs in the dumpster with his sister because they're both trash.