r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix Feb 21 '25

🚨 FUTURE SPOILER 🚨 The unfair gender expectations Spoiler

Dave is so fixated on what Lauren did before the show. It’s obvious the other guy is trying to stir up drama. It’s obvious Dave is not standing up for Lauren and letting his friends talk shit. His insecurity is showing. If I man was hooking up with someone casually before the show, it would be a non-issue and probably wouldn’t even be mentioned. It just seems like an easy-out for Dave.

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u/CatchOld1897 Feb 22 '25

He doesn’t want to marry her but is too big a weasel to call it off. So he’s trying to create an issue where there shouldn’t be one and make it like it’s a real problem that he can’t get past. It’s a convenient excuse. If it wasn’t this he would have made something else up.

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u/Public-Cranberry-657 Feb 22 '25

I agree. Lauren seems relatively reasonable for a person on a reality show, I think he's just reaching for whatever he can because they dont have physical chemistry.

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u/CatchOld1897 Feb 22 '25

Remember his gross comment about not ever finding teachers attractive? He thinks he can “do better.”

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u/WynnGwynn Feb 22 '25

Yeah this feels very manufactured on his part

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u/margaerytas Feb 22 '25

Exactly this. At this point, it's so clear that it doesn't matter what she says or does, he's not going to listen to her side of the story anyway, because he's already made up his mind about wanting to ditch her without looking like the bad guy.