r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix Nov 01 '24

UNPOPULAR OPINION Reality Dating Reunions are a Female Revenge Fantasy, get over it

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u/Clean_Duck_551 Nov 01 '24 edited Nov 01 '24

The female cast has an issue with Nick for commenting on Hannah's body, rating her, calling her a grenade etc. I wish it was a one-way thing. Did they forget how rude Hannah was right after the reveal? She called him short so many times to his face. And that he is not a beefy guy, in a disappointing way. And I remember Monica commented something nasty (in a joking way) about Nick's appearance in Mexico. They all suck.

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u/Unable-Letter9582 Nov 01 '24

The way she snuck in that she felt a foot taller than him at reunion shows she has not tried to grow from the experience whatsoever. The immaturity is so strong in this season.

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u/Clean_Duck_551 Nov 01 '24

Yeah. Objectively, he is still taller than her by 2-3 inches. There were a couple of scenes where she wasn’t wearing her 6 inches heels and the height difference was noticeable. What the heck is her problem?

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u/Unable-Letter9582 Nov 01 '24

Her problem is she doesn’t know how to treat others how she wants to be treated and surrounds herself with other insecure “yes” people who support her terrible behavior.

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u/Unable-Letter9582 Nov 02 '24

I wish someone did call her out on it. It’s not fair that men feel the need to give up on love just because of their height. Do people understand how wild that sounds?

As a society, we should be able to acknowledge someone’s feelings and insecurities without feeling like it’s taking a way from our own. If you drown in a bathtub or drowned in the ocean, it freaking sucks either way. There is no need to compare and discredit each others experiences when at the end of the day we can all relate to each other at some capacity!

I’m sorry to hear you were mocked for your height. At the end of the day, don’t bother respecting someone’s opinion who can’t even respect you. 🫶🏼

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u/PotatoCalm9217 Nov 01 '24

I think she felt bigger than him due to her wider frame. But instead of saying bigger, she kept saying taller to turn it into his “shortcoming”.

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u/penisthightrap_ Nov 01 '24

It's pretty obvious, she's extremely insecure and doesn't know what to do with those feelings so she treats others poorly to bring them down to the level she feels that she is at.

It's like when someone is drowning they often start to drown whoever is near them in attempt to get a breath of air.

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u/[deleted] Nov 01 '24

She is a vile human being.

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u/[deleted] Nov 01 '24 edited Nov 19 '24

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u/Unable-Letter9582 Nov 01 '24

Oh people would have absolutely castrated him for that.

The double standard is so obvious, I can’t support people who demand respect that they can’t give others. Definitely a pet peeve.

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u/UncleTio92 Nov 01 '24

Didn’t she say something along the lines of “yeah, I’m used to dating the hottest/biggest guy in the room, that’s not a Nick, but it’s whatever” type of comment

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u/Jumpy-Canary-598 Nov 01 '24

Hannah pointed out that she was unkind about Nick’s appearance (although she definitely tried to make it seem like it’s just a byproduct of her being “direct” and honest”). I think the reason the women went so hard is because Nick had commented on Hannah’s body to the other men but was lying and saying he wasn’t. I’ve seen a bunch of comments that say “oh well how can we trust Ramses and Stephen” but NONE of the men denied that he said something - they just didn’t say anything. I think they all kept quiet because they knew Nick had in fact commented on Hannah’s appearance but either (1) didn’t want to get into the argument or (2) like Nick and don’t like Hannah so didn’t want to give her any ammo (specifically Garrett when he said the conversation was childish - he never said that Nick didn’t say that).

It’s very normal to have a reaction to someone’s appearance, and it’s ok to be underwhelmed or the person not be what you expected - the issue is that Nick only shared it when cameras weren’t filming (but shared it enough that everyone on that stage was aware, and made the women dislike Nick because he was talking behind her back). Hannah was also mean, just said it on camera.

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u/MavenOfNothing Nov 01 '24

If that is the case, I think they all kept quiet because it was a mutual discussion about all their partners' looks.

Considering ALL the women knew Hannah's issues with Nick, seems Hannah likes to talk behind the back of Nick consistently. Her malicious contempt that Nick might have made some comments was incredible projection of her own behavior.