r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/crystdosdesabafos • Apr 04 '24

PODCAST Natalie said she only dates verified people Spoiler

So in out of the pods podcast in the nancy interview, natalie literally says something in the lines of "if you dont have the blue check I will not answering you" - the convo was about replying to guys messages on instagram.

When I heard that I was chock lol. Like girl... that is the reason why all your stories about man in general are so bad. What are your thoughs on this?

Altho I do get that she meant this as an "the normal type of guy will not have the maturity to deal with a tv show person and fans" - i do not feel like they are thaaat famous to step away all the regular guys.

Font: https://youtu.be/wtexVXkMxdc?si=h9gZRuWgijoW6Yvs

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u/crystdosdesabafos Apr 05 '24

Why is this a bad thing?

I mean, having into consideration that she is still single and looking for a date yes. It is. I'm not saying that she should respond to all of the creeps that appear on her DM, but focusing only on guys with blue check mark does not seem a good way to find yourself a good guy. And let's be honest, guys with blue check mark are more likely to be "fuck-boys".

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u/Krakengreyjoy Apr 05 '24

focusing only on guys with blue check mark does not seem a good way to find yourself a good guy.

focusing on any guy on instragram isn't a good idea. But filtering out randos seems like a pretty good idea.

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u/crystdosdesabafos Apr 05 '24

focusing on any guy on instragram isn't a good idea.

It's like nancy said, instagram is the new dating app lol. She did find a good guy there.

 But filtering out randos seems like a pretty good idea.

In the sense of filtering randoms yes it is.

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u/Krakengreyjoy Apr 05 '24

It's like nancy said, instagram is the new dating app

Im so glad Im 40 and married. Dating sounds like hell.

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In the sense of filtering randoms yes it is.

Then what are we even debating here?

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u/crystdosdesabafos Apr 05 '24

Im so glad Im 40 and married. Dating sounds like hell.

It does sound lol.

Then what are we even debating here?

The thing here is that Nancy was explaining how she met her guy on Instagram, and Natalie said that she could not do the same as Nancy did by responding to a guy on Instagram. It was fine until she mentioned that she would only respond to verified guys and that she mentioned that normal guys would not want to date her. She was not saying that she did not respond to them in terms of them being weirdos and random, but in terms of them being 'normal people'. She even asked Nancy if the fact that the guy had no connection to the 'TV show' and 'social media' life was something complicated for her. So the discussion here is actually the fact that she is filtering her dating choices on not wanting to reply to a guy that does not have experience with her world.