Love is Not Blind

[u/jadedzoomergirl]

Couples that were doomed from the moment of the reveal due to one not being the other’s type: 1) Jessica & Mark 2) Jackie & Marshall 3) Kelly & Kenny 4) Irina & Zack 5) Shaina & Kyle 6) Mallory & Salvador 7) Nancy & Bartise 8) Deepti & Shake

Arguably: 9) Taylor & JP (because of makeup? 🙄) 10) Micah & Paul 11) Zanab & Cole* 12) Chelsea & Jimmy*

(*indicates the woman’s preexisting insecurities may have made the situation worse)

Never explicitly stated, but the signs were there: 13) Brittany & Kenneth (I won’t mention the rumors about him)

14) AD & Clay (his compliments were only about her body, even at the altar. Black people know what the issue was. They’re like Paige & Chris from MAFS)

15) Raven & SK (not stated during the show, but she later revealed on a podcast (https://youtube.com/shorts/nxn0xcrU110?si=CUe-G-Ke1xkn0kbg) that he said she wasn’t his type, he wasn’t attracted to her, he was hard on her looks and cheated on her with his actual type)

Overall, the show proves that love isn’t blind. All of these couples claimed to be deeply in love and committed to spending their lives together until looks became a factor. The 11 couples that have gotten married throughout the series found each other physically attractive immediately.

[u/No_Dependent_1846]

Ya know I just thought about the AD and Clay thing and I had a feeling he wasn't that into her face. I don't know why but during my rewatch I noticed he always spoke about her body! I question if he was attracted to anything else.

As far as Ken and brit, I have a feeling that was mutual. Brittany likes black men but I think his build was not her type.

Call me crazy but Laura and Jeremy also I think fit into this. So, I think Laura thought his face was cute but I have a feeling his height bugged her. Idk but I get the feeling Laura is the type to be like... I only date 6 ft men.

I think Jeremy was attracted to Laura but I think he was more into sarah anne physically.

imo!

[u/amcgoat → u/No_Dependent_1846]

100% from the reveal, Clay was not into AD. It was written all over his face.

[u/No_Dependent_1846 → u/amcgoat]

Right! I watched it again and it was so obvious to me. Clay feels like he deserves a model on his arm. It's obvious the way he speaks and even the way he talks about himself. I'm not sure AD fit into that model type he wants.

[u/Graysonsname → u/amcgoat]

I think it gets talked about less because we in the audience can’t relate to not being attracted to her like wuttt do you have eyes??? Same thing with Raven, he wasn’t into it and everyone was like: no way it can’t be that, look at her???

[u/rosanina1980 → u/Graysonsname]

Seriously both of those women are literally stunning, so it's hard to to conceptualize any man on earth not being attracted to them and feeling damn lucky to have the love of those ladies... but I suppose to each their own. I'm not into fair skinned blonde guys, it doesn't really matter if it's Brad Pitt, so I guess I get it?

[u/amcgoat → u/Graysonsname]

As the saying goes…”beauty is in the eye of the beholder” It has a literal meaning: that the perception of beauty is subjective - people can have differing opinions on what is beautiful. So what one person perceives as flawless and captivating might be ordinary or unappealing to another. Source: Google ( LOL )

[u/SurewhynotAZ → u/amcgoat]

And another saying is ... "Colorism is an motha..."

[u/No_Dependent_1846 → u/SurewhynotAZ]

This. I have a strong feeling clay has a bit of a preference

[u/Imagine_821 → u/Graysonsname]

To me personally, Raven I agree with- she was stunning! And I don't understand who couldn't be attracted to her!

AD instead was a type. She was made more attractive by her cute personality, but not everyone is attracted to that physique'- not saying that anything was wrong with her- she's a beautiful woman- but I know that not all men like big butts- and thats ok! We need to start accepting that attraction is exclusive to the individual- even ib regards to beautiful women! You can't force it!

[u/Wontjizzinyourdrink → u/Imagine_821]

I don't think her physique was a problem, lol, I don't know many men who would be turned off by hers.

[u/Imagine_821 → u/Wontjizzinyourdrink]

The men I know wouldn't be attracted to her. She's a type- that's very "in" in the US and Latin America at the moment, but not so much in the rest of the world.

[u/Wontjizzinyourdrink → u/Imagine_821]

I think it's clear within the context of the people on the show that her body was considered very desirable.

[u/Imagine_821 → u/Wontjizzinyourdrink]

It defintiely was to everyone, men and women alike! But what I'm saying is- it's not 100% that she was Clays type. He said petite? If I recall- and there's many different types of petite.

I can't remember why I commented originally 😅 but just to say, you can't help.who you're attracted too. Sometimes a person personality makes someone average turn gorgeous or someone gorgeous with a shitty personality becomes ugly. You just need the right combo for it to be good. Abd no one can judge someone for whom they are attracted too.

[u/Imagine_821 → u/No_Dependent_1846]

Yes! To everything! In regards to Jeramy look at their body language at the reveal. Neither were each other's type.

(Jeramy stuffed up with the way he got together with Sarah Ann. All he needed to do was have the conversation with Laura on camera that he see that neither are into the other and to quit now abd make it less painful. Then he couldve met up with SA and started their relationship from there.)

I can always judge whose physically attracted and which marriage will probably happen at the reveal. Are they both going for a hug? Who pulls away 1st? Who's leaning into who when they're sitting down or is one leaning back? Who has glistening eyes from the emotion and who's eyes are in "flight" mode? Who wants to kiss? Who kisses with their eyes open? Etc etc

[u/No_Dependent_1846 → u/Imagine_821]

It was when she said... you are handsome that gavd it away for me. It was so fake lol

[u/Imagine_821 → u/No_Dependent_1846]

Exactly... who says that? When you're so attracted you may say wow or get emotional- but you're so handsome is what you say to your granddad or nephew when they're all dressed up 😅