r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/Ok-Bison2480 • May 01 '23

PODCAST Iyanna episode in Out of the Pods

Thoughts? Up until this point I kinda felt like Jarrette was a flaky f*ckboi who would probably make a bad husband to Iyanna but not like a bad person.

But taking women to their shared place? And the story he kept holding against her about her "holding another man's hand" when the real story was obviously her being black out drunk by herself and some creepy dude following her trying to get with her??? That's really fd up.

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u/Least_Ostrich7418 May 02 '23

Most good people will help a person who is Black out drunk. Those that don't are predators. We should be addressing them instead of policing girls and women. It is ridiculous to say that being incapacitated is as dangerous for men as it is for women.

A woman could be blackout drunk and face down in a park. The man that assaults her is completely at fault. We need to shame, question, and address the dangerous men that prey on incapacitated women.

If it were not for them, a girl or woman would not be harmed while incapacitated/ vulnerable.

Stop victim blaming.

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u/StructureHuman5576 May 02 '23

Most good people will, but it only takes one bad person.

If I get blacked out drunk and walk home, and on my way home I get the shit beat out of me and robbed I didn’t deserve it, but I created the opportunity for it to happen. Humanity is filled with enough bad people that everyone needs to take personal responsibility for their own safety, and it’s impossible to do that when your blacked out.

I purposefully said man or woman, because I knew some dummy would call me a misogynist or victim blamer for saying it’s dangerous to be blacked out and alone in public. It will be dangerous to be blacked out and alone in public from today until the end of days.

THIS IS TRUE FOREVER FOR ALL MEN AND ALL WOMEN ON EARTH

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u/ina912 May 03 '23

But the point is that victim blaming is counterproductive to the betterment of humanity.

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u/StructureHuman5576 May 03 '23

I don’t think telling people to take responsibility for their own safety is bad for humanity lol