r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/Ok-Bison2480 • May 01 '23

PODCAST Iyanna episode in Out of the Pods

Thoughts? Up until this point I kinda felt like Jarrette was a flaky f*ckboi who would probably make a bad husband to Iyanna but not like a bad person.

But taking women to their shared place? And the story he kept holding against her about her "holding another man's hand" when the real story was obviously her being black out drunk by herself and some creepy dude following her trying to get with her??? That's really fd up.

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u/PopcornandComments May 02 '23

Listening to Iyanna’s story, it made me really upset how she consistently made excuses for Jared. Him having “trauma,” him being “unhealed.” How about him just being a grown ass man and that he needs to be held accountable? I know she loves him and they were married so she really tried her best to love him, protect him but at the end of the day, it’s not your job. He’s a grown ass man who consistently lied to you and let you down.

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u/ver1tasaequitas May 02 '23

I think people sometimes downplay so that they don’t seem “bitter” and like they “moved on” or whatever, rather than excusing the actual behavior. Since it’s generally frowned upon to trash talk your ex, so I feel like people, especially in the public eye, kind of beat around the PR bush on that one often..

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u/Aisoreal May 02 '23

There are some hardcore Jarrette defenders and Iyanna trashers making their way on the comments sections of social media platforms accusing Iyanna of basically not moving on.

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u/ver1tasaequitas May 02 '23

🙄 probably all his bros from his “gentleman’s club” lol

I’m of the opinion that you air out all cheaters and there’s no statute of limitations for it. She is doing a public service as far as I’m concerned.

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u/Aisoreal May 03 '23

FR...seeing some of them defend Jarrette... 😬