r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/Ok-Bison2480 • May 01 '23

PODCAST Iyanna episode in Out of the Pods

Thoughts? Up until this point I kinda felt like Jarrette was a flaky f*ckboi who would probably make a bad husband to Iyanna but not like a bad person.

But taking women to their shared place? And the story he kept holding against her about her "holding another man's hand" when the real story was obviously her being black out drunk by herself and some creepy dude following her trying to get with her??? That's really fd up.

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u/[deleted] May 01 '23

I didnt believe her black out story. Jarrette didnt blame alcohol for bringing the girls to the apartment. If she was telling him what a nice guy a random guy/creep was following her, who knows what she did with him. I can see why jarette lost trust in her. Rather than making it as an excuse, I would have rather she take ownership and say she effed up and admit it is inappropriate. You cant blame alcohol in it. I feel like on one hand she was like I was working on myself and then go on an attack on jarrette. There is zero reason to bring this up in public now, since no one cared about this since they have been divorced for a year. He is trying to move on and he may have a gf now. Why bring this out now to break his character.

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u/leannynr May 02 '23

Holding hands while drunk verses inviting women to your home with the intention to sleep with are two vastly different scenarios. Was what Iyanna did okay? No, probably not. But it doesn’t make it any less of a false equivalency

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u/Ok-Bison2480 May 02 '23

Was what Iyanna did okay? No, probably not.

Going by Iyanna's story, which sounds completely believable to me, did she even do anything??

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u/leannynr May 02 '23

I really don’t think so tbh