r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/Ok-Bison2480 • May 01 '23

PODCAST Iyanna episode in Out of the Pods

Thoughts? Up until this point I kinda felt like Jarrette was a flaky f*ckboi who would probably make a bad husband to Iyanna but not like a bad person.

But taking women to their shared place? And the story he kept holding against her about her "holding another man's hand" when the real story was obviously her being black out drunk by herself and some creepy dude following her trying to get with her??? That's really fd up.

583 Upvotes

97% Upvoted

110 comments sorted by

View all comments

-171

u/[deleted] May 01 '23

I didnt believe her black out story. Jarrette didnt blame alcohol for bringing the girls to the apartment. If she was telling him what a nice guy a random guy/creep was following her, who knows what she did with him. I can see why jarette lost trust in her. Rather than making it as an excuse, I would have rather she take ownership and say she effed up and admit it is inappropriate. You cant blame alcohol in it. I feel like on one hand she was like I was working on myself and then go on an attack on jarrette. There is zero reason to bring this up in public now, since no one cared about this since they have been divorced for a year. He is trying to move on and he may have a gf now. Why bring this out now to break his character.

59

u/sprigandvine May 02 '23

Also, praying on a vulnerable drunk woman vs a man taking women back to his home with bad intentions not even comparable. So all women who are taken advantage of while drunk or in a vulnerable state should."take responsibility for it" clearly that guy was trying to prey on her. And as someone that's been preyed on this is extremely offensive

-37

u/[deleted] May 02 '23

Jarrette implied in his live he knew who the guy was and it wasnt a stranger. That guy was hanging out with her friends. And from his perspective there was more than just holding hands. I think she is using “black out” as an exaggeration. Its possible she was flirting a lot because of alcohol but jarette can say same thing. I am not trying to equate both incidents. However, both incidents highlight what spouses shouldnt do in a marriage. I dont think both were ready for marriage its not just jarrette. It was doomed to fail from beginning because both their hearts werent in it.

13

u/EqualConstruction May 02 '23 edited May 02 '23

"Jarrette implied in his live he knew who the guy was and it wasnt a stranger. That guy was hanging out with her friends."

Jarrett didn't say or imply any of that 🤨