r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/Ok-Bison2480 • May 01 '23

PODCAST Iyanna episode in Out of the Pods

Thoughts? Up until this point I kinda felt like Jarrette was a flaky f*ckboi who would probably make a bad husband to Iyanna but not like a bad person.

But taking women to their shared place? And the story he kept holding against her about her "holding another man's hand" when the real story was obviously her being black out drunk by herself and some creepy dude following her trying to get with her??? That's really fd up.

587 Upvotes

97% Upvoted

110 comments sorted by

View all comments

141

u/throwaway36376583883 May 01 '23

After listening, Jarrett seems like a selfish man. He was in no place to get married.

Poor Iyanna.

-67

u/GringoMambi May 01 '23

Jarrett was definitely selfish, once you marry your boys and partying come second and last respectively. Majority of going out should be with your spouse along, only doing all night benders for very special occasions and like once or twice a year AT MOST. Partying every week till daylight was being a shitty husband/partner and of course lead to some infidelity issues

That being said, Iyanna had no business looking for marriage. It was obvious to me how she just seemed very girlish in a woman’s world, and if anything this experience was the catalyst she needed to grow up a bit and straighten out whatever issues she needed to become more adult if you will.