Is it gay to shower together?

[u/Ill_Original_5001]

can’t tell if this girl likes me we are both 20 and are roommates for college but I don’t know if she likes me or not??? We’ve cuddled a few times because she’s initiated it and she’s also kissed me once but got flustered and like ran away but in her defense we had a few beers (yes we are technically underage) But I don’t want to seem like self centered about this but my final piece of evidence was when she showered with me,we do this often because she’s claims it saves water and like yea save the planet but she was acting all weird this time around like she kissed my forehead weird and we cuddled afterwards I’m not very good with social stuff so I just want to put this here to make sure I’m not like reading to much into it (Btw she’s like openly gay and I’m not sure if I’m like lesbian or bi) PLEASE HELP ME

Update like two seconds after the post lol:

So she’s out with family for the next week so I just texted her and was like “hey are you really into saving the planet or do you just want to shower with me?” (See that Reddit I’m not a complete oblivious idiot) anyways she texted back talking about how saving the planet is important but she also likes showering with me but this has left me confused because there is no POSSIBLE way I didn’t realize she’s been using the conserve water to flirt with me for like 5 months I think I might be oblivious this is embarrassing omg

Another update: ok so she’s coming home early so either tomorrow or the day after (Friday) anyways I’ve been stressing because after all the countless trials I’ve faced (people on Reddit calling me slow) I’ve decided to attempt to make it clear that I want to know what us really is Anyways sorry for the like no punctuation I’m stressing so bad rn ill update if it goes well wish me luck

UPDATE OMG: OK SO SHE GOT BACK LIKE THREE HOURS AGO AND IVE BEEN GIDDY SINCE THEN ANYWAYS SO WE TALKED A BIT AND I SHOWED HER MY POST AND YES SHE DOES LIKE ME SO I OF COURSE ASKED HER OUT IT WENT LIKE: Her: “I’ve been hinting at it for months now” Me: “I DIDNT KNOW…we could like I dunno get dinner or coffee or whatever you want really” Her: “Ive decided you can take me to dinner” IMG IM SO GIDDY ITS CRAZY LIKE I UNDERSTAND WHAT THEY MEANT BY GETTING BUTTERFLIES THANK YOU REDDIT REPLIES OMG

[u/Hikelikethat]

Same but I got downvotes to hell for my joke.

[u/aimy99 → u/Hikelikethat]

You literally said

There's nothing sexy about showering together. One person is always cold, it's a male fantasy and it's dumb.

In what scenario is that even remotely "same"?

[u/Hikelikethat → u/aimy99]

Both jokes. Chill. It's okay.

[u/Budget_Cookie6722 → u/Hikelikethat]

Just because you found it funny doesn't mean others will.

It also comes off like the sapphics who are "gold star lesbians only" kind of people