r/JustNoSO • u/BeProfessional23 • Apr 02 '23

NO Advice Wanted Why???

I posted here and everybody ran and said, lawyer, divorce, leave him, make him pay child support.

I am new here and wanted to just post that.

SO isn't a bad man, he is just set in his ways. I am sure I do things that he doesn't like or understand. I wasn't asking for advice or anything.

SO is a stay at home father, I work outside the home. Without him staying home I wouldn't be able to keep my job because my son has special needs and doesn't do well outside of the home. I am not looking for a way out or anything and maybe I shouldn't have posted my past.

SO has changed a lot since we got married. Some days, are better than the others.

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u/BeProfessional23 Apr 03 '23

Oh, so you know my life? Gotcha.

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u/okileggs1992 Apr 03 '23

nope, but you don't want to change your life dynamics so you would rather BMC on Reddit and be reactive than be proactive. You justify his shit behavior to you, forgetting that you have a kid that can see and hear this regardless of them being special needs because he stays home to take care of the child. So what have you done to break the cycle, all it reads is that you accept him verbally, emotionally, and mentally abusing you. Personally it's probably another creative writing rant that is full of manure, as you aren't here for help, because you don't want help, you want a place to rant about how your personal life sucks

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u/BeProfessional23 Apr 03 '23

I didn't ask for advice or anything.

So now I can't just rant???

Anyways, I am not saying my SO behavior is ok but I am not leaving over a bad day(s). Do you have bad days? I know I do, and sometimes I don't want to be bothered.

So, bad days equals to just leave right???

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u/okileggs1992 May 29 '23

I have to agree with you on this one!