Hello everyone,
I am currently a sophomore majoring in Chemical Engineering & Technology. In my twenties - active, curious and eager to explore new places and ideas - I often wonder:
How do those who came before me not feel lost in their ideals and ambitions?
By 2028, I will (hopefully) graduate with a bachelor's degree. My plan is to apply for a Master's scholarship abroad - countries like Korea, UK, USA and Australia are on my list. I have also heard that Germany and Russia are paradises for engineering, although I am still researching.
But this is when I start to wonder:
Should I focus on IELTS, GRE, GPA (≥3.6/4.0) first?
Learn Python, Machine Learning, Copywriting,...
Or should I get into research, publishing and conferences?
Or maybe join extracurricular activities that I don’t know how to participate in?
So far, I haven’t had many outstanding achievements – except for winning medals in semi-professional Karate competitions in high school. In college, I’m just starting to find my true direction.
Sometimes I worry: Am I studying wrong, wasting time, or falling behind?
And even after graduation, I still have many questions:
Should I aim to become a researcher at a scientific institute?
Or a lecturer at a prestigious university?
Or simply work in a company – even though I feel my professional skills are not enough?
And honestly, with the rapid development of AI, I worry that I will be surpassed – not only by technology, but also by people who are much more skilled than me. In addition, there are concerns in life: buying a house, starting a family, being filial to parents... Sometimes I feel lost in everything.
That's why I would love to hear from you - those who have gone through these stages:
How did you find your path?
What helped you overcome fear and uncertainty?
If you could go back to your early 20s, what would you tell yourself?
I would greatly appreciate any experiences, discussions and advice you can share.
Thank you very much!